08/30/2026
Never underestimate the little things. Come ride with Brent! https://brentgraef.com/clinic-schedule/
While Brent was here, he helped me with a greener horse that I hadn't done much with in awhile.
The last day we worked together, as I lead her through the pasture gate he said, "From here to the barn, you can feel if she's ready to be saddled or not."
Then, once we were in the barn he asked, "What's one way you might know if she's ready to ride? You could ask, is she ready to trim? That's something you can feel out, you have experience there. If she's ready to trim, she's ready to ride."
She had lead to the barn nicely. Her eyes were soft, her breathing was good and had stayed steady. She felt so much more with me than when we had started a few days earlier. She was standing quietly and square, with a leg in every corner. I knew if I asked for her feet, she would give them easily and softly.
She was ready to ride and we did have a great ride.
What he reminded me of throughout that session is how interconnected everything we do is. The way they lead can tell you a lot about how they'll probably trailer load. How they are with their legs being handled can tell you a lot about how they'll feel about you being on their back. If we're really paying attention, our horses can tell us a lot about how they're feeling, what their tendencies might be, and what kind of support they might need from us...sometimes just in our walk from the paddock to the barn.
So many of us take our horses for granted. We get complacent. We stop feeling back to them. Then we miss a lot of what they've been sharing with us. Then we wonder why we have troubles.
Never underestimate the little things, the simple things...
- Terra