08/08/2026
So true!
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What happens when that horse you tried out and decided to buy isn’t what you expected? 🐴 😖
It happens more often than people think.
In fact… it’s happened to me…
Imagine you see a lovely horse advertised and it seems to tick all the boxes.
You talk to the seller.
You go and try it.
Maybe you even go back a second time.
You organise a vet check, the horse passes, the money changes hands, and you proudly bring your new horse home.
And then… Disaster. 😩
Maybe the first ride doesn’t go as expected.
(Maybe it’s the second or third.)
But suddenly you’re sitting on a horse that feels nothing like the one you tried.
Panic sets in…
The horse was drugged.
The seller lied.
It’s not as well schooled as I thought.
It’s dirty.
It’s mean.
Whatever the scenario, you’re faced with a horse that seems very different from the one you bought.
So what’s really going on?
Have you been scammed? Or is it something else? 🫣
Let’s stop for a moment and take a breath.
The first thing to remember is that this is a horse, not a car!
When you test drive a car, it should drive the same way when you get it home.
A mechanical check tells you a lot about what you’re buying, and provides some reassurance.
But a horse is a living, breathing animal…
It has a mind.
It experiences stress.
It forms relationships.
It is affected by its environment.
There are several reasons a new horse may take time to become the horse you thought you were buying.
❇️ Health
A vet check can tell you a great deal, but it can’t tell you everything.
Some conditions can develop later, flare up under stress, be caused by a long journey, or become more obvious in a different environment.
For example, stress associated with moving can contribute to problems such as gastric ulcers, which can affect behaviour, comfort and performance.
❇️ Stress
Moving home is a huge event for a horse.
New paddocks.
New horses.
New routines.
New smells.
New sounds.
New people.
Some horses become anxious and reactive.
Others become shut down.
A stressed horse often cannot relax and work the same way they did in their familiar home environment.
❇️ A new rider
You are a stranger.
The horse is trying to work you out just as much as you are trying to work them out.
The balance, timing, aids and even the confidence of a new rider are all different for the horse, and they often need time to build a relationship with the new person asking them to do things.
❇️ Feed and environment
This is one people often underestimate.
Your paddocks are not the same as the previous owner’s paddocks.
Even if you both have the same grass species, and live in the same vicinity, the soil, mineral balance, pasture quality and stage of growth are all different.
Your hay may also be different.
Your water most likely is different (and if it’s from a bore it will also have a different mineral balance).
The horse’s digestive system has to adapt, and that adjustment can affect energy levels, behaviour and overall wellbeing. Nutrition, in particular, can play a large part in the overall wellbeing of a horse and many people overlook this.
So here’s the mistake I see a lot of people make with a new horse…
They expect the horse they rode during a one-hour trial to immediately reappear in a completely different environment.
Sometimes that happens. (I’d say you’re lucky if it does!)
Often it doesn’t.
I’m not saying you should ignore genuine red flags… there are some horses that are misrepresented, and a few dodgy dealers out there! And sometimes some behavioural or training issues only become obvious after purchase. If that’s the case get help, please!
But in many cases, what you’re seeing is a horse that is stressed, unsettled and trying to adapt.
The first few weeks with a new horse should often be about observation rather than expectation.
Give them time.
Keep their routine consistent.
Keep their feed changes gradual.
Build a relationship.
The key thing is to expect them to be different… and to give it some time rather than make dramatic conclusions after the first difficult ride.
The horse you buy and the horse you develop over the next six to twelve months (yes, it takes that long sometimes) are often not the same horse.
Remember, a horse is not a machine—it is a partnership waiting to be built. 💚🐎
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And as always, if you’re struggling with your horse then please reach out… I’m only too happy to chat. ☺️
