07/06/2026
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Home Groom Series
Week 6 — introducing gentle handling
By now, your VIPaw is beginning to understand the rhythm of the process.
The space feels familiar.
The lead feels softer.
And the brush no longer carries the same uncertainty it once did.
This week, we begin gently introducing more handling and short standing exercises.
Not through force…
but through calm repetition and clear guidance.
We still begin the same way.
Guide your dog calmly into the space using the lead…
light pressure… movement… release.
The moment they soften or move toward you, the pressure releases too.
No pulling.
No constant tension.
Just quiet communication.
Once your dog settles, begin brushing in an area they already feel comfortable with first.
Then we begin introducing a stand.
Slide one hand softly under your dog’s lower tummy or behind their back legs and gently lift upward into the standing position.
The moment they stand… remove your hand again.
At first, this may only last a second or two before they sit back down.
That’s okay.
If they choose to sit, we simply repeat the process calmly.
Lift… stand… release.
And this is where quiet voice association can help.
As your dog rises into the stand, softly say:
“stand.”
If they choose to sit on their own, quietly say:
“sit.”
We’re simply attaching calm words to natural actions.
Over time, dogs begin connecting the word with the movement itself.
As understanding builds, we slowly stop using the word “sit” when it’s their own choice… and begin saving it for moments we intentionally ask for it again later.
And we build standing time gradually.
3 seconds.
Then 4.
Then 5.
Small, achievable moments.
Not perfection.
This part becomes especially helpful later during professional grooming appointments too.
Standing calmly helps dogs during clipping, sc******ng, coat preparation, and styling work — especially around the legs, feet, face, and undercarriage.
When dogs already understand how to softly move between sit and stand, the grooming process tends to feel far more predictable and less overwhelming for them.
And that’s where the difference really begins to show.
If your VIPaw becomes uncertain, fidgety, or tries to leave the moment completely, we return to something easier again.
A few calm brush strokes in a familiar area…
a softer moment…
then another small try.
This is the reset.
Comfort → challenge → comfort again.
And try not to fill the space with too much talking.
Dogs tend to settle more deeply when our energy becomes quieter, steadier, and easier to follow.
Soft eyes.
Calm breathing.
Relaxed hands.
Some dogs just need a little more time to process what’s being asked of them.
And when the process stays calm and predictable… this is where confidence quietly begins to grow. 🌸