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Dogs are truely incredible beings. We are lucky to share our lives with them ❤️
29/08/2026

Dogs are truely incredible beings. We are lucky to share our lives with them ❤️

Please be social and like people but not too social because jumping up is rude.

Please be energetic and want to go on walks with me but be able to calm down immediately afterwards.

Please be protective of me when I need it but not all the time.

Please tell me when someone is arriving or coming to the house but then calm down immediately so you don’t embarrass me.

Please hold your bathroom needs until I am able to let you out, even if that’s for hours, and make sure you only use this area.

Please be so loyal and devoted to me but not be anxious when I leave or am gone.

Please be playful but only when I want to as well and never play too rough.

Please be independent but immediately return to me if I need you.

Please ignore thousands of years of natural instincts because we live inside now.

Please let me touch your stuff and your body and your food at any given moment and not have a problem with it.

Please be okay with confinement and not be loud or get bored.

Please spend my work day relaxing but then walk politely on a 6 foot leash with me when we do go outside.

Please accept these human made substitutions for enrichment as just as good as the real thing.

Please save your chewing, shredding, digging and other outdoor behaviors only for items and areas that I designate and at times convenient to me.

Please get along with other dogs, even if they are pushy or rude, and never ever hump anything or anyone.

Please watch birds and squirrels and other small animals quietly and not chase them, especially on leash.

Please listen dutifully to me under any and all distractions.

Please eat the same food every day and only show interest in food I offer you in certain contexts, not at any other time.

Please accept these strangers touching and patting you in public because it makes us happy.

Please, do all these things. And you’ll be a “good” dog.

I could go on and on and on. But this is what I see and hear all day. It’s probably the most unfair deal you can imagine between two species, and yet you know what? They still try. Despite us humans not being okay with over HALF of the demands and expectations we put on them, they still try. We don’t deserve them, so we should learn to treat them as such.

- Helen St. Pierre

24/08/2026
An excellent post! This is applicable to all weathers, not just the heat! Something I encourage my clients to think abou...
11/07/2026

An excellent post! This is applicable to all weathers, not just the heat!

Something I encourage my clients to think about when choosing when and how to crate their dog, and/or if other alternatives like pens or smaller baby gated areas are a better option 🥰

⚠️ UK DOG OWNERS : CAUTION CRATING YOUR DOG DURING THE HEAT WAVE ⚠️

Whilst I can understand some of the reasons given for crating, there's no denying that a locked/closed crate door takes away a dog's ability to change the location in which they rest.

🥵 THERMOREGULATION 🥶

Given the freedom to do so, many dogs change their sleeping locations across a sleep/deep resting period and part of the function of this is to regulate their temperature. This is especially relevant for dogs with thicker coats.

My border collie shifts from by my bed (on the floor) to the hall, to my office every night- even when there isn't a heatwave on. Prior to bedtime, he has three main resting places in the lounge- a bed, the carpeted floor and the tiled floor. He proactively changes his location to support regulation of his body temperature BEFORE he is uncomfortable.

🤢 FACTORS THAT INFLUENCE BODY TEMPERATURE 🤒

Body temperature is not just influenced by the thickness of coat. It's influenced by exercise (of course), stress, pain, health problems (including nausea and GI upset), hormones and some medications.

It's not uncommon for us to have adolescent dog owners on our client support page report their dog suddenly not settling in their crate when hitting 7-9 months of age. This unexpected shift is likely influenced by development phase specific hormone changes and increased sympathetic nervous system activity (reduced stress and arousal regulation) interfering with the dog's body temperature when at rest.

🌬️ CAN'T I JUST DIRECT A FAN AT THEM?

Directing a fan on your crated dog to help them keep cool is of course one option, but they may also wish to move away from the air flow at some point.

My short coated adult Spanish dog moved from the bedroom into his bed in the hallway last night- something he almost never does. He likely got fed up of the increased air flow and moved away - something he was able to change because he had the freedom to do so.

💦 ACCESS TO WATER

It’s not uncommon for us to meet dogs who aren’t crated with water accessible inside- due to them previously spilling the water.

Water is a basic need and dogs should have access to it 24/7, with the potential exception being during transportation/travel.
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POST EXERCISE CRATING 🐕 💨

If you use a crate, it's really important that your dog is not panting heavily when shut inside.

Fingers crossed, the vast majority of us will be avoiding exercising our dogs during the hottest part of the day - with the exception of those without a garden or whose dogs don't toilet in the garden.

With the temperatures as they are - we should be mindful of their respiration rate regardless of whether they have just been walked or not!

If you're popping out and crating your dog in your absence- please consider whether they're cool enough to be confined to one space.

🤷‍♀️ WHY DOES THIS MATTER?

Being unable to regulate their temperature through changing sleeping positions/locations can increase heat stress and in extreme cases- lead to heat stroke.

If you use your dog's crate to 'enforce' sleep and rest, then in the heat wave you need to consider whether crating your dog is counter-productive to increasing rest and sleep.

We are all likely aware of how reduced sleep affects us personally, and the same effects are observed in dogs. Impaired rest and sleep can negatively impact on emotional and arousal regulation and that can, for some dogs, increase bite risk.

OTHER OPTIONS

If you’re concerned that your dog is too hot in their crate, then now may be the time to explore whether they can be left safely out their crate and rest/sleep well without reliance on one. Start with short durations - so the weekend is often an optimum time for exploring this!

Another option depending on the size of your dog maybe a puppy pen- allowing your dog access to a hard floor if one is available as well as a more padded option (vet bed, dog bed etc).

If you feel you have no choice but to crate your dog, be considerate on where the crate is located in your home- taking air flow and room temperature into consideration.

Alternatively consider upping the size of your crate when space allows- so your dog can move around that little bit more.

Cooling mats are an option, but just be mindful your dog doesn’t chew it!

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09/07/2026
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05/07/2026

⚠️ THINGS PEOPLE DO ON WALKS THAT MAY BE ACCIDENTALLY PUTTING THEIR DOG IN DANGER

Most weeks I encounter at least one person who appears unaware that the situation they are allowing their dog to get in may be putting them in danger of getting into a conflict with another dog.

Here's the what and why....

🚗 Allowing their dog to go up to an unfamiliar dog who’s unloading or loading into their vehicle.

A dog full of energy at the start of their walk or tired and ready to go home at the end of their walk may be less tolerant of an unfamiliar dog in their space, let alone by what is effectively an extension of their territory.

🚪 Coming up behind or towards a dog who’s navigating their way through a gate or doorway.

Enclosed spaces are not the places for dogs to meet for the first time. Consider how many exit points a dog has in a gateway - if you're approaching head on or from behind, the other dog is likely to feel more trapped and may respond defensively.

💦 Taking their dog up into the space of another dog who is drinking from a communal water bowl (such as at an outdoor cafe).

Only yesterday I had to ask someone to wait a second with their dog while my three dogs finished drinking.

Bowls are often associated with high value resources and water is a resource- especially if a dog is very thirsty! Dogs often tend to want to be able to drink in peace, unless it's alongside a well establish dog friend. They need to drop their guard while drinking and may be more sensitive to having an unfamiliar dog suddenly approaching.

🥷 Coming up behind a dog who doesn't know they are there.

This happened to us yesterday, despite me looking up a path as I moved onto it. I briefly got lost in my own thoughts looking into the deer park and then heard my mostly deaf and semi blind geriatric dog growl. I turned around and there was an entire, young male labrador metres away (with his owner close by).

The dog wasn't being rude- but I was startled, and so were all my dogs. When startled- dogs have no time to assess the situation and will choose 'fight' or flight. A group of dogs are more likely to work together (safety and strength in numbers) and move at speed towards a perceived threat to repel them. Fortunately, I have conditioned myself to rapidly deploy my emergency whistle in these situations- so the boys were quickly called away.

After this encounter, my heart rate was elevated. I'm not even a very flighty person, but I was just so startled by the person and dog suddenly being there when I was under the distinct impression it was just me and my dogs present.

🏃‍♂️ Running with their dog directly towards or up from behind another dog, especially on narrow paths.

For similar reasons above, the less time dogs have to assess a threat- the more likely they'll make a swift assumption the individuals running into their space are on the offensive!
Even without a dog, this is how many runners get bitten- running too quickly and closely past a dog (startling them if approaching from behind).

The best thing people can do is alert people of their presence in good time when approaching from behind (as a runner, I do this), slow down to pass or curve when space allows.

🥎 Allowing their dog to run up to a dog engaging in training and/or playing with toys.

Quite simply, resources! But also arousal spikes from higher intensity training can lower thresholds for tolerance and lead to rapid decision making (friend or foe) that generally sways towards foe.

🥎 Chucking a ball for their dog to chase towards another dog!

Similar to reasons given for the previously mentioned points. Resources, high speed and unfamiliar dogs are not a winning combination.

🐕 💨 Allowing their dog to rush over at speed towards another dog from afar.

Imagine you were walking along minding your own business and someone started making a high speed beeline for you. What might you think and would you perceive this as an intrusion to your personal space?

🌳 A dog tearing around and/or springing out of bushes right in front of another dog/s or whizzing past another on a narrow path.

Again, think about the concept of threat assessment. The less time there is (distance, speed of approach) to assess a threat- the more likely flight or fight (repulsion behaviours) will take place.

In some instances, dogs just freeze or appear bemused and confused. Other times a dog whizzes out and past so quickly they're gone before there's time to respond, but if a dog is fast and of a breed and/or personality with a fast chase>grab drive, your dog may be in trouble.

I know I can recall my dogs off this - and did so when two dogs appeared metres away from them out of bushes and charged 100+ metres across the meadow back to their owner- but not everyone can.

We could argue their recall needs to be better, but we could also argue that you need to help your dog be more mindful of adjusting their behaviour within a social context.

💩 Letting their dog go up to another dog having a poo!

Many dogs want privacy and space when defecating as they are vulnerable whilst doing so.

🐕‍🦺Allowing their on lead dog to pull intensely up to another.

Intense pulling elevates the heart rate, respiration and alters the body language of a dog to that more associated with tension.
This could promote a defensive response from the other dog and even if that were proportionate (such as tensing up, growling) a dog pulling intensely on lead is at a greater risk of disproportionate emotional and behavioural responses, due to the physical stress and frustration caused by pulling!

I could go on!

The mindset that 'my dog is fine so what's the problem?' needs adjusting to one of understanding dogs for what they are.

They're animals.

What they aren't is being completely immune to feeling threatened and neither are we!

As mentioned multiple times across this post, SPEED/TIME & SPACE all influence a dog's threshold and recognising this can help us see the world through their eyes.

The less time and space a dog has to assess a situation, the greater the risk of proactive assumption of a threat and escalation.

Even the most resilient dog has off days. I was uncharacteristically stressed by being startled yesterday! Maybe it was the heat, perhaps it was my hormones or was it just because my mind was so focused on something else ....

Pain, health, sensory loss (such as with my old dog), tiredness, heat, stress, individual social histories and traits and SPEED, TIME AND SPACE all influence how dog-dog interactions go.

Just because your dog is consistently tolerant that doesn't mean other dogs are going to be exactly of the same level of tolerance across the board.

The ‘effort’ needed to reduce risk is normally briefly slowing down, pausing or waiting for a matter of seconds or saying something to alert others of your presence (to avoid startle).

In some instances it’s that people need to improve their dog’s recall and/or help them adjust their behaviour depending on the context - rather than expecting everyone else to adjust to what you and what your dog wants to do right there and then.

We don't expect that of people, so we shouldn't expect it of dogs.


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04/07/2026

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