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🐴 We redefine the relationships between horses and humans based on trust, respect, and understanding. Our approach includes liberty work, groundwork handling, and learning the language of the horse. This groundwork fosters both equine well-being and human well-being, creating a mental and physical balance that promotes confident riding. We offer online courses with personalized support, available in both French and English, as well as the option for clinics at the farm in Iceland 🇮🇸. Whether you are an experienced horse lover or a new enthusiast, Aurora Horses and Humans Coaching is here for you, ready to guide you in your personal development through horses! 🌟
Join us on this incredible journey!

22/10/2026

While working on ride-and-lead exercises, we ask Gladur to rein-back so Thor can pass from my right hand to my left, across the front. 🐴🐴

Gladur finishes his movement. I ask Thor to move… and he starts backing up, too. 😅🤔
Well, just a little bit.

Did he think he had understood the exercise? Did he assume he was supposed to copy Gladur?
Or was it something else entirely?

That’s what I love about them: staying open-minded. Because horses think differently than we do, and sometimes even differently than other horses, they never fail to surprise us.
Just when you think you're teaching a specific cue, he’s already connected the dots in his own way, using his own logic. That’s classic Thor.

But sometimes, it’s not about that at all. Thor seems hesitant to pass beyond Gladur’s shoulder, and since I didn’t switch the lead rope to my other hand right from the start, I can’t really blame him. He stays back.

So instead of asking whether he "succeeded" or "failed," we can simply ask: what did he understand from what I was offering? 🧠🌿

Have you ever noticed if your horse's "wrong" response wasn't actually wrong at all, but rather a reflection of mixed signals or a slight inconsistency in your cue? Share your thoughts below! 👇💬

(And if you often wonder what your horse truly understands from your requests, we can help you decode their logic. Send us a message! 🤝)

19/10/2026

Dare to be yourself, even when people look at you. 🌿

"Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching."

It’s a beautiful phrase. But with a horse, we discover that the true challenge is often the exact opposite: daring to stay true to yourself when everyone is watching.

Because social pressure is quiet and powerful. In front of others, we start doubting our own instincts. We censor ourselves. We act the way we "should" rather than how we feel. We tuck our values away just to fit in, or to feel validated. And little by little, we lose track of who we really are when eyes are on us.

Our horses, however, never let us forget.

They know nothing about "doing things right", social expectations, or the fear of judgment. They don't perceive the image you try to project, they perceive who you are, right here, right now. Your real patience, or the fake one. Your genuine calm, or the one you force just to keep up appearances.

It is both disorienting and deeply liberating. Because with them, you don't have to put on an act. They offer you the rare gift of being the exact same person, whether you're alone or in public, in front of a judge or out in your pasture.

What if that’s what true integrity really is? Not just a set of secret ethics, but that inner stability where you no longer have to choose between what you show and what you feel. Where you can trust yourself, whether someone is watching or not.

Your horse isn't asking you to be perfect. They’re asking you to be authentic. And listening to them is often how we relearn to listen to ourselves. 💭

In front of them, we are always exposed. They know exactly who we are, whether there's an audience or no one around at all. That’s precisely what makes them such demanding partners... yet so precious for our growth.
Because we are the ones who struggle to remain true to ourselves under the gaze of others.

What if we let our horses teach us how to be the same person, with or without an audience? 💭

Have you ever felt like your horse was reading straight through your mask? Tell us in the comments! 👇💬

17/10/2026

"Sometimes I despair that humanity will ever come to accept that we are animals too, and that we don't hold a monopoly on intelligence, instinct, or thought."

This quote, shared by Philippe in a comment, resonates deeply with us as an essential truth we too often forget.

Humanity was built on the idea of superiority: the human who decides, and the animal who obeys, devoid of thought. Yet simply watching a herd is enough to shatter that belief. Horses communicate, remember, anticipate, comfort one another, and grieve. They have a culture and individual preferences. They think. Differently than we do, certainly, but they think.

As long as we believe we are above them, we seek to dominate. The moment we accept to be with them, we seek to understand and connect on equal ground.

This humility applies to all living beings, including humans. To those who function differently, who feel more deeply, who don't fit into standard boxes. They aren't "beneath" anyone either. They just think differently. And that is a strength, not a flaw. Intelligence doesn't take just one form—and all its forms should be valued, right alongside instinct, if only we allow ourselves to trust it again. On that front, animals have so much to teach us.

So when faced with a horse reacting unexpectedly, instead of seeing simple opposition, we can choose to ask ourselves: what if they perceived something we missed? What if they didn't just react, but truly thought it through?

Thank you, Philippe, for this quote that puts us right back in our proper place, inviting us to cultivate this precious open-mindedness. 🙏

And you, do you see your horse as a full partner? Share your thoughts in the comments or send us a PM! 👇

15/10/2026

"How do you approach your horse when heading out on a ride?" 🐴✨

We sometimes catch ourselves thinking:
"Oh no, they're going to do this to me again..."
"We're going to end up arguing just to leave... or to pass that one spot..."

Tension settles in before we’ve even started.
What if, instead of seeing this as a problem, we chose to see it as an opportunity? A chance to experience, adjust, or improve something together. 🧭

They refuse to walk straight ahead? No problem!
It's the perfect opportunity to work on serpentines, shape nice circles… or even try stepping through in a rein-back, who knows? 😉

Instead of worrying or getting frustrated, what if we stayed grounded, keeping control over our emotions and the situation?

This simple shift in perspective changes everything:
✨ Our own experience: the ride suddenly feels completely different.
✨ Our horse's perception: their view of us shifts as we position ourselves as a calm, supportive guide.

Granted, it might not magically fix the issue on the very first try. But isn't it worth a shot? Replacing confrontation with an unexpected game, keeping your mindset light and positive. 🌿

When facing a minor roadblock on a ride, do you ever pivot the exercise to diffuse the tension? Share your stories below! 👇💬

12/10/2026

When self-regulation hits its limit… and we snap. 🌧️🤯

I'm going to be completely honest with you: today, I wasn't a good role model.

It’s autumn here. Pouring rain, howling winds, mud everywhere. One of those days where every step feels like a battle, where you’re soaked to the bone before you’ve even started.
The horses are out of grass, so moving them to a new pasture is non-negotiable. But they’re in a terrible mood too, and They are dragging their feet to get the halter on. 🌧️

Gladur is impatient, far less respectful than usual.
And me? I’m exhausted. I’m slipping in the mud, dripping wet, and I have to admit to a very human, very selfish thought: "I just wish he’d listen to me right now, without arguing."

Tension is rising. On both sides.
The halter gets caught in wet manes, brushing against sensitive ears. Frustration builds up.
I try to breathe, to stay grounded and calm…

Once we reach the new pasture, taking off the halters doesn’t go with the usual quiet respect.
And right there, I lost it.
I lost my cool. I thought they were being "stupid", and I told them so, with irritation in my voice. 🗣️💥

Where did my self-regulation go? 🛑

We often talk about self-regulation in horses (in fact, I dropped a link to an article on that topic in the comments 👇). But what about ours, the human side of it?

As a quick reminder, self-regulation is that internal ability to manage your emotions and behavior to adapt to environmental demands and achieve your goals, even when everything is going wrong. It’s our internal thermostat. 🧠🌡️

So, did I fail?
Not completely.
Despite the fatigue, the frustration, and the awful conditions, there was only that minor verbal slip. No harsh movements, no unfair punishment. Just a moment of raw humanity.

The truth is, this self-regulation didn’t come naturally to me.
It was the horses, and the way we choose to care for them, that built it in me, step by step.
It’s a muscle you have to train. And like any muscle, if conditions get too tough, you need a gentle and mindful recovery. 🌾

Today, I snapped. Tomorrow, I’ll reset. With kindness, toward them, and toward myself.

Here’s to hoping the weather improves, but above all, here’s to remembering that making mistakes is part of the journey. 🌿🐴

How do you handle your "off" days with your horses? Do you ever lose your patience when everything piles up? Tell us in the comments, zero judgment here! 👇💬

10/10/2026

What if we reinvented trail rides? 🌲🐴

For many of us, hacking out easily falls into a comforting routine.
Often the same trail, the same back-and-forth, the same usual loop. We follow the path on autopilot, sometimes just "to get the horse out," like checking a box for the week. 🗓️

But doesn't all this repetition end up putting out the spark?
What if we reinvented our rides to bring back energy, effectiveness, and above all, pure enjoyment to those shared moments? 💫

There are countless ways to turn a familiar trail into a playground, without even having to change locations:

🔹 Vary gaits on the same path: Instead of walking on the way out and trotting on the way back, why not try unexpected u-turns, backing up, or transition changes right in the middle of the trail?
🔹 Use the terrain: Take advantage of an open space to trace an imaginary circle or figure eight. Step up and down a bank backwards or sideways.
🔹 Shift perspective: Take a section of the path in the opposite direction, or step off the beaten track for a few strides in the grass (if the ground allows).

Nothing says you have to stay in a rigid straight line. Nature is an endless playground! 🌿

Offering these micro-variations on a familiar route helps your horse stay:
✅ Curious (they don't know what's coming in 10 meters).
✅ Attentive (they need to listen for these new cues).
✅ Engaged (they work on balance and proprioception).

And for us?
It means more fun, better progress, and that exhilarating feeling of creativity in motion. We no longer just "go through" the ride, we build it together. 🧠✨

Breaking out of our mental habits means giving ourselves permission to reinvent the ride, even on the trail right next door. 🌲

Next time you head out, challenge yourself: how many variations can you introduce on your usual route? Just be careful not to overdo it, and save some for next time! 😉

Have you ever tried breaking away from your usual route to improvise different sections? How did your horse react? Tell us about your little "off-road" adventures in the comments! 👇🌲

09/10/2026

"Moving at the mounting block… Is it just bad behavior?" 🤔🐴

Ever experienced this?
Your horse, usually rock-steady, steps away just as you're about to put your foot in the stirrup. They shift, walk off, or refuse to stand.
Often, when there's no obvious pain visible, the immediate thought is: "They're being stubborn," "They're just disrespecting me."

But today, my first thought is: "What's going wrong for them?" 🧭

Here's what happened to us recently with Gladur and Taktur:

🐴 Gladur kept stepping away as soon as Aurore placed her hand on the saddle. At first, Aurore thought he was struggling to find his balance, but he kept refusing. So she checked the saddle, the girth… and decided to tighten the girth slightly. Result: Aurore mounted smoothly without a hitch.
Our takeaway? Aurore didn't adjust the girth by chance. Gladur has a history at the mounting block, and we realized he dreads having to redo the whole girthing and mounting process caused by a slipping saddle.
In fact, these mounting refusals became rare once we switched to a treeless saddle that molds to his back and stays completely stable.

🐴 Taktur, on the exact same day, started moving too. Our initial reaction? "Is he copying Gladur now?" 😅
Then Béatrice decided to walk around to the other side and mount from there… and Taktur stood completely frozen and calm.
We discovered this by chance when we started alternating mounting sides regularly, so both humans and horses are comfortable in any situation. Taktur sometimes feels discomfort on one specific side. He tells us, simply: "Today, this side isn't working for me."

What are the takeaways?
To us, every horse is unique and deserves tailored listening.
When my horse "speaks" (even by moving away), I feel happy.
Yes, happy—because it means they trust me enough to say: "Hey, something feels off," knowing I will look for a solution. Because behind every behavior, there is a reason. 🧠✨

Taking that reason into account means:
✅ Creating more comfort and safety for everyone.
✅ Making life easier (no more pointless power struggles!).
✅ Strengthening mutual trust.

Of course, hearing the message doesn't always mean we can fix it right on the spot. But at least we know. We understand. And we can adapt our request or find a solution down the road. 🌿

Have you ever uncovered the real reason behind a horse's "bad behavior"? Share your detective stories in the comments below! 👇🕵️‍♀️🐴

05/10/2026

Groundwork with zero equipment, just you and the horse? Sounds impossible? 🐴✨
Do you feel like without a lead rope or a stick, you lose all control and your horse won't listen, or might even push past you?

I completely get that feeling. For a long time, I believed that lead ropes, reins, and physical attachments were the only real guarantees of success and safety. Without them, I felt vulnerable.

Until the day I helped a farmer herd sheep. 🐑

At first, instinct takes over:
You push, you react fast, you try to outrun them so you don't lose the flock. You try to look big and intimidating to force them forward.

… But you lose every single time! 🛑
Too much pressure, and the whole flock turns around or scatters in a panic. Back to square one. 🔄

So I learned to pause, observe, and stay grounded.
To intervene with tiny adjustments, without yelling or chasing:
🔹 A steady gaze.
🔹 A shift in posture.
🔹 A peaceful yet firm intention.

It's shifting from "pursuing hunter" mode to "guiding companion" mode.
Instead of forcing them forward, I projected trust, presence, and safety. The movement became fluid and natural, built on pure cooperation. 🌾

I brought this exact lesson to our horses through liberty work. 🐴

Taking away the lead rope and stick isn't putting yourself in danger.
It's choosing to communicate with that same subtle precision:
✅ If I bring pressure and urgency, my horse flees or braces.
✅ If I bring calm and clear intention, my horse follows, looks to me, and seeks my direction.

It's trusting your horse (and yourself) enough to guide through energy and intention rather than physical constraint. 🧭

Tools are useful, but they should never become a crutch that stops us from listening to our own body language.

Do you feel ready to do a full session with no tools in hand? What scares you most about the idea? 👇🌿

03/10/2026

Ever feel like you're constantly struggling with your horse? Like you're just not speaking the same language? 💬
Maybe you're simply trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.

Before jumping into technical fixes, take a moment to understand who they truly are. 🧠

In our latest article, we help you break free from labels and identify your horse's core temperament: are they Electric, a Rock, a Sponge, or a Leader? ⚡🪨🧽👑

Because understanding their real personality means honoring their needs—and unlocking a whole new level of connection. 💥🐴

👉 Link in the first comment to read Part 1: "Who is your horse, really?" 👇📖

01/10/2026

Is perception our true limit? 🧠🚧

We often think the barriers between us and our horses are physical or technical.
What if our biggest obstacles are just illusions created by the routines that comfort us? 🌿

Words, environment, behavior… We constantly interpret everything around us. But isn't our perception limited by the lens of habit?

Take the classic example of working in an arena:
Do you ever feel like you're going in circles? Even in a rectangle! 😉
Do you feel limited in what you can do?
Following the track dutifully, throwing in a circle or half volte at the right moment is fine… but a bit boring, isn't it?
Often, we impose a framework on ourselves simply because it's what we were taught, because it checks the right boxes. It becomes an invisible cage.

But imagine breaking those routines!
Instead of endlessly going round and round:
🔹 What if we traced out the letters of our name or a giant number on the arena floor?
🔹 What if we created an imaginary obstacle course in our mind, anywhere in the arena, way off the track?

Changing patterns isn't just about "doing something else."
It's about waking up your horse's mind.
It's about surprising yourself.
It's about transforming a repetitive session into a shared exploration.
It frees us up to make progress without even realizing it, while genuinely enjoying the moment.

Without noticing it, we build our own mental prisons. Routine is comfortable, but it's the breeding ground for boredom, for both rider and horse. Routines can bring security to our horses, it's true but we shouldn't overdo them!

Next time you walk into the arena, ask yourself this:
"Am I executing a pattern out of habit, or am I genuinely exploring new possibilities with my horse?" 🤔

If the answer is "habit," then maybe it’s time to switch gears. Break the loop. Trace something new. And watch how quickly your horse comes alive. ✨

What's one routine you've decided (or are about to decide) to break to have more fun with your horse? Tell us in the comments! 👇🐴

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