29/09/2026
Two puppies encounter the kitchen mixer on their first day in their foster home and get nervous. How does one help them?
Rusk and Mousse are already skittish. Everything is new and the world is a big bad scary place. They manage to fall asleep only to be rudely woken up by the screaming of a kitchen mixer. But this is the reality of a home. Life can't just stop. So what does one do? Use the open palm gesture. We managed to get a video of this particular interaction and it is gold!
Rusk looks at his human first. He seems to register the gesture, and within just a few seconds he rests his head on his paws.
Mousse is still processing. She flinches, looks around, keeps watching the kitchen. She glances at the hand, but she's not convinced yet. It is, after all, not a command, but a conversation. It goes back and forth, and both sides get to say their bit. So the message is offered again. She deliberates a bit more, is finally convinced she is safe, and rests her head on her brother.
Same room. Same sound. Same gesture. Each puppy took it in their own time.
Also, no trained behaviour, no expectations. The open palm was simply offered, and offered again, until each of them could process the message. This is a conversation: negotiated communication. It works very differently to training. It can be powerful, but only if one understands this distinction and is open to an actual conversation.
This month's Conclave in the BHARCS Auditorium, on Sunday 11 October, looks specifically at the open palm gesture, negotiated communication and conversations.
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This video is from the supplementary material to the recently published paper, The Open Palm Gesture in Human–Dog Communication (2026).