15/09/2026
Things I do with my dogs that you’re ’not supposed to do’ …
•Yes my dogs are allowed on the furniture and in my bed, once they act calmly and match the energy of the room, the luxury of getting on the comfy sofa or bed comes with the responsibility of following the rules.
•Of course I give my dogs little bits of food outside of their own ‘dog food’ or bits of leftovers, once they know they’re not allowed to sit and beg for food or pester us while we eat our own meals.
•They’re allowed to rough play with me and even bite me (gently) in the game. BUT, it’s a controlled game, at the right time, following the rules of the game and it ends when I say so. This kinda game is only allowed with me or my partner, not with every person they interact with of course.
•They’re allowed off lead to run around and be free, once the environment allows it and once they recall properly when asked. Before their recall was good enough, they had mostly freedom, but on a longline.
•They’re not stuck in a loose lead walk or holding a lie down command throughout the day, our whole walk or during chill out time, because we have worked hard to teach them what they should be doing in certain places and times and I always still have my obedience commands to fall back on to help if need be.
I’m by no means saying all dogs should he given all these freedoms all the time, no, we have to work towards building the skills needed to do all this. This is the whole point of dog training as far as I’m concerned.