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Wag & Mama I drive an air conditioned van with windows , I am fully insured with first aid training .

My name is Karen Fry , i have been a professional dog walker for many years x i charge £16 a walk for collect, walk , shower and dropoff x i am currently full but please message me for recommendations

05/10/2026

HUMAN DIRECTED AGGRESSION AND THE USE OF AVERSIVES

I’ve had several dogs come to me in the last year who have aggression issues around people that either started or became much worse after they’d had aversive training. By aversives we mean the use of slip lead corrections, body jabs, rattle cans, prong and Ecollars etc. Some dogs went for general loose lead/recall/obedience training but became so scared after the use of aversives that they are now lunging at or even biting people who approach them or try to handle them. Some were already worried about people (growling or barking etc) and are now lunging or attempting to bite people. Some have bitten their owners since this training.

These dogs didn’t have these issues beforehand and they’ve become so scared of what people may do to them now that they are showing aggression. Some of them are now misinterpreting normal human interactions with them and see people as a threat to their safety and are using aggression to try and keep people away. By normal human interactions I mean people taking collars and leads off, reaching out to touch them, walking past then when they are resting etc. These dogs are traumatised by what’s happened to them, there is no other way of describing it.

I used to see dogs like this (who’ve shown aggression after aversive training) once or twice a year and now it’s something I see several times a month and it’s really concerning. There are some really unskilled trainers out there using aversives which is extremely worrying; if an unskilled trainer gets it wrong using reward the worse that happens is the dog gets fat, if you are an unskilled trainer using a shock collar there’s a huge risk of fallout.

Aversives are sold as a ‘quick fix’ they make dogs stop behaviours that people don’t like (running off/barking/stealing things) but there is always a huge risk of a fall out. It’s no surprise really that doing or using something that causes fear or pain may make an anxious dog worse.

None of this is the owners fault either, all have incredibly kind and loving families who weren’t aware these methods would be used or who didn’t realise the implications. They’ve done nothing wrong and are now left to try and repair the damage that’s been done. I feel so sad for the lovely families and their dogs as they’ve been really let down.

There’s no quick fixes to changing emotions, it takes time and patience and who often we are trying to rebuild confidence that’s been lost and help dogs recover from previous trauma (of all sorts). There’s a huge risk with quick fixes and it’s like playing roulette- you may have an incredibly robust dog and get ‘lucky’ and have no negative consequences from using aversives but it may break another dog and leave you with a terrible fall out. Just not worth the risk when we have alternatives

Laura McAuliffe, 2025, Dog Communication

03/10/2026

DISTRACTED DOG WALKERS

The distracted dog walker is commonly seen chatting on the cell phone, wearing headphones or socializing, while oblivious to what their dog is doing, how their dog is feeling or what is going on in the environment.

This may not sound like a problem, but it is something that many of us have a problem with, even more so if we have a reactive, sensitive dog.

I always compare walking a dog to driving a car. It’s not so much about our driving skills, but having to constantly be aware of the driving skills of others – trying to predict what they will do, which rules of the road they will ignore and how distracted they are. This is especially true in the country I live in, where driving can be a really stressful experience.

I understand that we often need to multi task – there simply doesn’t seem to be enough time in our day to accomplish everything we need to, but walking our dogs should not be one of these times.

“But my dog is really friendly, well socialized, gets on well with everyone, is well trained, knows this environment well etc. and I hear that. But another dog might not be – maybe they need space, are reactive, sensitive, selectively social, have health issues, might be terrified of another dog racing straight towards them chasing a ball thrown from a ball launcher etc.

If distracted dog walkers have no regard for other dogs or other people, they should at least have regard for their own dogs.

Walking your dog should be a time of bonding, of connecting, of seeing the world through their eyes, of reinforcing and rewarding wanted behaviours, of keeping them safe and protected, of being truly present in the moments.

22/09/2026

🐾 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝗳 𝗣𝗲𝘁 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗪𝗲𝗲𝗸: 𝟮𝟭–𝟮𝟳 𝗦𝗲𝗽𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 🐾

This week is Deaf Pet Awareness Week.

As many of my followers know, my Buddy is 13 years old and earlier this year we realised that he had lost his hearing.

It was an adjustment for all of us, especially because communication has always been such an important part of our relationship.

I’ve always used words, sounds and my voice to communicate with Buddy - to help him understand what I’m asking of him but also to help him feel comfortable in his surroundings, to reassure him when he’s needed it and, of course, to tell him how much I love him.

But when he lost his hearing, I had to learn to communicate with him in a different way.

Now, I use visual cues and hand signals much more often. I make sure Buddy can see me before I ask something of him. I use touch carefully and thoughtfully, particularly when he’s resting or asleep and I try not to startle him.

Positive reinforcement is a great way to communicate because it doesn’t rely on words. We can show our dogs what we want through our actions, reinforce the behaviours we like and build understanding through consistency, timing and trust.

As a dog trainer, I’m always advising clients to say less and not repeat cues over and over and having a deaf dog really does cement the fact that words are not needed.

A hand signal, a change in my body position, a gentle touch, a facial expression and a predictable routine are all meaningful ways of communicating.

If you’re living with a deaf dog, here are some important things to consider:

🐾 𝘿𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙨𝙪𝙙𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙗𝙚𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙙.
A deaf dog can’t hear you coming and may be startled if touched unexpectedly.

🐾 𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙜.
Let them know your dog is deaf and make sure your dog can see them before they attempt to touch.

🐾 𝙂𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙜 𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚.
Buddy has become much more watchful of us because he can’t rely on hearing us.

🐾 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙨𝙖𝙛𝙚𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙙𝙤𝙤𝙧𝙨.
A deaf dog can’t hear traffic, another dog approaching or a recall cue. Reliable visual communication and appropriate management are incredibly important.

🐾 𝘿𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙖𝙨𝙨𝙪𝙢𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙖𝙛 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙪𝙣𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣.
It really doesn’t. Deaf dogs can learn an enormous amount. We simply need to change the way we communicate.

🐾 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙜 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙖𝙛𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨.
Buddy is still Buddy. He still loves his walks, his food, his cuddles, his garden, his adventures and being with his family.

Having a deaf dog has made me even more conscious of how important it is to listen to our dogs in ways that don’t involve sound. As a trainer, I already know that good training is about communication, cooperation and understanding rather than simply getting a behaviour, but adapting to Buddy’s deafness over the last few months has reinforced that more than ever.

The biggest thing to remember is that deafness is something Buddy has, it's not who he is. He’s still the wonderful little dog he has always been ❤️.

So, this Deaf Pet Awareness Week, I’d love to help people see deaf dogs for the wonderful, capable and special dogs they are. 🐾❤️

Do you have a deaf dog or have you ever lived or worked with one? I’d love to hear about them in the comments. Tell me a little about them and what they’ve taught you. 🐾👇

©️ Written by Amanda Childs
Happy Buddies - Dog Training & Walking and Puppy School
𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘱𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘱𝘩𝘪𝘤, 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘪𝘵! 😊

Great to get breakfast after a dog walk 🤗
09/09/2026

Great to get breakfast after a dog walk 🤗

23/08/2026

‼️URGENT - MISSING SPANIEL WITH HIP DYSPLASIA‼️
Kokko went missing 27th July whilst being walked in Redhill, Surrey, RH1, 25 miles from home.
She was wearing a collar with I.D. tag.
She had a missing alert on her microchip.
Kokko is an older adult red cocker spaniel with a white chest and white flash to her nose and chin. She has a long tail and is very distinctive.
IF YOU SEE HER RUNNING LOOSE, PLEASE DO NOT APPROACH HER...BUT TAKE A PHOTO AND CALL US IMMEDIATELY.
Kokko was adopted by her family less than a year ago and is very precious to them.
Being lost/loose for any length of time is a huge concern with Kokko as she has hip dysplasia and will very likely be in pain.
With growing concern for her health, there is a large REWARD being offered for her safe return.
‼️Have you picked her up, and fallen in love with her?
‼️Have you bought her in good faith?
‼️Do you know someone who has recently acquired a dog like Kokko?
☎️Call us in complete confidence with any potential sightings or information regarding her whereabouts. Remember with sightings, try to take a photograph to help us confirm it is her.

07731 742600 / 07866 026343 ☎️

Kokko is Missing - Redhill RH1

19/08/2026

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