04/07/2026
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Ranty post sorry
For the third time this week, during a 1:1, Iâve had exactly the same conversation.
This isnât having a go at anyone. Itâs just one of those moments that makes you realise how much misinformation and social media influence even the most intelligent people.
Why do we expect dogs to think like us?
Your training should be made up of reinforcing the behaviours you want, not constantly correcting the ones you donât.
Before anyone jumps in, when I say âcorrectionâ Iâm not just talking about lead jerks or physical punishment. A correction can be anything. Saying âNo!â, âStop it!â, âAh ah!â, shouting, pulling on the lead, pushing the dog away, or interrupting them. Theyâre all forms of telling the dog theyâre wrong.
But hereâs the problemâŚ
If your dog spends most of its time hearing what not to do, how is it supposed to know what to do instead?
Dogs donât think,
âMy owner doesnât like this behaviour, so Iâll work out the opposite behaviour and offer that instead.â
Thatâs simply not how they learn.
If all we do is point out mistakes, weâre expecting the dog to magically fill in the gaps. Instead, we should be showing them the behaviour we do want, then reinforcing it until it becomes their first choice.
If your dog hears âGood girl!â, âGood boy!â, âYes!â and receives reinforcement less often than it hears âNo!â, itâs probably time to rethink your training.
If thatâs you, donât feel guilty, step up. Revisit your training plan or ask for help creating one. Sometimes just a handful of simple, clear training criteria can make all the difference.
Corrections create confusion. Confused dogs offer more unwanted behaviour because theyâre trying to work out what on earth you actually want from them.
This is even more important with puppies. Theyâre already trying to make sense of a huge, confusing world. They donât need more uncertainty from us. They need clear guidance, consistency, and lots of reinforcement for making good choices.
Catch your dog getting it right far more often than you catch them getting it wrong. Thatâs where real learning begins.