26/08/2026
This morning I had an interaction with a member of the public that really highlighted something I think is worth talking about.
A Rottweiler came running towards us while I was out walking. As soon as I saw the dog heading towards us, I put the dogs in my care into a down to avoid any interaction and called over, “Please can you recall your dog?” Once she finally had him back, I carried on with my dogs in an off-lead heel and walked towards her.
She then said, “But your dogs are off lead, why should I put mine on?”
I hadn’t asked her to put her dog on lead. I’d asked her to recall him, because he was approaching us and she was too far away to safely step in if anything happened.
If we’d crossed paths a few minutes later, with her dog under control, this wouldn’t have needed to be an interaction at all. We were on a narrow path, and her dog came bounding towards us while she was barely visible back in the tree line. That was the issue, the distance between them and her dog having no recall, or even, no attempt to try get him back. With a bit more control, all the dogs could have passed safely and we’d have simply gone our separate ways.
“But he’s friendly, so it’s fine.”
It doesn’t matter if a dog is friendly. The other dogs might not be. They don’t know each other, and you have no idea how the interaction could go. If your dog is approaching someone else, you should be close enough, and have enough control, to recall them before they get there.
At this point she became increasingly abusive, calling me pathetic and saying “dogs should be dogs,” questioning why hers should be on lead when mine weren’t.
“Dogs should be dogs” is lovely in theory. But responsible ownership also means recognising that not every dog wants to interact with yours.
Mine being off lead doesn’t give another dog permission to run over to them, and asking someone to recall their dog isn’t being “pathetic” or anti-dog. Whether a dog is friendly, or on or off lead, isn’t really the point. Being in control of your own dog, and considerate of everyone else around you, is.
A little bit of consideration goes a long way 🫶🏼