16/12/2025
100% agreed!
🟣 Touch, emotion, and the stories we tell
I’ve been reading an ABMP piece on ‘emotional release’ in massage, and it raises something important. People can cry, laugh, feel waves of emotion, or go quiet during touch. That can be a genuine and meaningful human response, and it does not automatically mean something has been ‘released’ from tissue.
I’ve also experienced the unhelpful side of this. I once had a therapist say to me, ‘I can feel sadness leaving your body’. Ugh. It made my experience feel like it belonged to their interpretation, not to me.
So here’s a gentle but clear position.
✅ Trauma informed is not the same as trauma treatment
Trauma informed practice is about creating safety, trust, choice, and collaboration. It is about helping clients feel in control of what is happening, and reducing the risk of overwhelm. It is not about ‘processing’ trauma through touch.
❌ Claiming to ‘release trauma’ is not within scope for massage and bodywork.
If we say we can treat trauma, we are implying that we can assess it and identify what it is. That crosses into areas that require specialist clinical training.
Yes, bodywork can be profound. I’ve had sessions that felt deeply settling and supportive. Touch can help someone feel calmer, less anxious, and more able to cope. It can support a sense of resilience and empowerment. But it is one part of a wider picture, not a magic route to resolving someone’s past.
About fascia and ‘unwinding’
In some fascial approaches including MFR, spontaneous movements are called ‘unwinding’, and they can be described as trauma or emotions being released because they were stored or frozen in fascia. I understand why this idea is appealing, it appealed to me too. But I always had questions, because I’d seen similar emotional and physical responses in other settings long before I ever became a therapist.
I’ve also taught myofascial work in different countries, and the ‘unwinding’ response varies hugely. In some places it is common, and in others, not even a eyelid flutter. Fascia is not different across borders, which suggests the response is likely shaped by context, culture, expectation, and what feels permissible in that space, rather than fascia holding a hidden record of trauma.
And one point that matters
There is no magic trauma release in fascia. In fact, there is no magic anything in fascia. Fascia is living connective tissue, part of an intelligent sensory system, and it responds to load and to touch, but it is not a storage vault for frozen memories waiting for the right technique.
Keeping practice safe and respectful
If emotion shows up during treatment, we can respond with care without interpreting it. We can slow down, check consent, offer choices, and keep the client in control. If someone needs trauma support, it is more appropriate to signpost towards qualified trauma care.
In-toucheducation - Helping therapists move from stories to standards.
See ABMP article here - https://www.abmp.com/massage-and-bodywork-magazine/lets-stop-hunting-emotional-release