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Equisentient Coaching Want to deepen your connection with your equine? Book an Animal Communication & Coaching Call today! You’re in the right place. Curious?

Do you ever wonder if your horse, or pony could speak, what they would say to you? Would you love insight into why they’re behaving in a certain way; confirmation on a gut feeling you have, or answers to your questions? Is there a horse or pony that you lost that you’d love to reconnect with? To hear their messages for you and to ask the questions you’re left with? My name is Rachael Beesley and I founded Equisentient Coaching to combine my love of horses, my coaching experience and the innate ability I have to connect with our equine friends with fascinating accuracy. I came across equine communication whilst training to become an EFL (Equine Facilitated Learning) Practitioner back in 2014. Curious, I embarked on an ‘Introduction to Animal Communication’ course the following year and discovered I had a natural ability to do so – drawn to horses as I have loved them for as long as I can remember. Working remotely, I’ll quickly get a sense of your horse or pony’s personality from their photograph. You can expect insights and feedback from your horse alongside a sensitive, empowering coaching session all in one. I love being able to act as a conduit between you and your horse; deepening your connection by providing understanding and clarity about the here and now as well as their guidance on how to navigate the next few steps forward. I became an Accredited Coach during the decade I spent in the corporate world as a HR Generalist and Consultant, before realigning my energies in 2010 to co-create transformational retreats and work with private coaching clients. You’ll experience my coaching skills during your Call as the poignant and personal information you receive will be given constructively with care. I create that essential space for you to make sense of all of the information covered so that you leave our call in a good place – typically with a “lovely feel good factor” which stays with you, according to many of my clients. Why not check out the testimonials tab on my website to hear about others' experiences: www.equisentientcoaching.com/testimonials

To arrange a remote Animal Communication & Coaching Call with me simply message me to arrange or book via www.equisentientcoaching.com/services

I look forward to connecting with you both soon.

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What led you to Rachael?
I went to Your Horse Live looking for someone who could help me - instinct told me you could help.

Was it what you expected?
I’m not sure I had an expectation. It wasn’t strange, unusual or woo woo. It was a normal conversation with some very useful insights.

What were you most surprised by?
Muffin’s sense of humour! Despite his early reticence he was quite funny with some of his later observations and responses to my request for us to learn to work together without him trying to bite me!

A potential client is on the fence about whether to have a call with me; what would you say to them?
Muffin told Rachael I was exasperated. I was. I couldn’t communicate with him and I now have a direction of travel.

Ever thought how much easier it would be if your equine could just talk?! Get your questions for them answered and see their personality shine through an Animal Communication & Coaching Call with Rachael Beesley.

Learn more & book via www.equisentientcoaching.com/services

To Deepening Your Connection

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Ever felt alone? Listening to your equine & yourself & walking your own path? Then this Podcast collaboration is for You

🎙Horseman's Log: Conversations from the field ~ The Sentient Horse Podcast

Deepening Connection with yourself and your equine sits at the heart of Equisentient Coaching. Join me and Lucy Sarna of as we explore what it is to be in relationship with our equines, meeting their needs and our own through Connection.

Episode 1: What are horses looking for in relationship with us?

Episode 2: Animal communication: how does it work?

Episode 3: Connecting with a whole herd: co-creating the

Episode 4: What have we taken forwards into our relationships with horses?

🎧 Listen via www.equisentientcoaching.com ~ scroll down to the bottom of the home page

"Absolutely loving the podcasts 😘xx"
"LOVING IT 🥰! Feel like I want to join in the conversation with you both 😆"
"I just wanted to drop you a note to say how much I’ve enjoyed listening to you on the Horseman’s Log podcast, it’s great, thank you ☺️"

We love hearing how they've resonated with you and if you're left with any questions you'd like us to answer next time round pls let us know.

To Deepening Your Connection 💞

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If your horse or pony could talk, what would they say about you?⁠
(Or your sheep, dog, cat, ferret - you get the idea).⁠
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Thanks to Rachael Beesley Equisentient CoachingI recently had the chance to find out.⁠
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I’ve long been fascinated by animal communication, it literally blows my mind, but I’ve been reluctant to try it myself, as I was utterly convinced all of my shortcomings as an owner would be laid bare.⁠
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So it was with some trepidation I took part in one of Rachaels virtual demos, along with 5 others, to have a chat to Romany. When I say trepidation, seriously, I was sweating bullets 😂⁠
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And the first words he said? “She doesn’t always get it right, but she does always try her best”. Honestly, I was shocked. There are times when I don’t have the time, money or energy I feel he deserves, and I beat myself up over it. I assumed he would too. My heart just melted.⁠
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We also established he’s picked up some less than flowery vocabulary from me - yep, he dropped the F bomb. I don’t know whether to be or 🤦🏼‍♀️😂⁠
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There are three things about Rachael I really like. Firstly, she’s not at all woo woo. Secondly, she’s a lovely straight forward, bubbly person who instantly puts you at ease. And thirdly, I like her for her ethics. One of the things she said really resonated with me - “I don’t want to read his diary as it were, I won’t get into his head, I take only the information he offers”.⁠
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I had another chat with him, via Rachael, at the weekend. He bought up a few things he’d been thinking about, and I was able to explain a few things to him. It is very clear he has an opinion about everything! Even me. He finished by telling me he wasn’t very impressed with people he met earlier in his life. And he didn’t expect to, or want to, like me very much. But he’s come to love me. I truly couldn’t ask for anything more.⁠
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Now I didn’t tell you all that so you know what a brilliant owner I am. Not at all. I’m telling you so that next time you beat yourself up over something you have or haven’t done, you stop, and just give your horse a hug. Chances are, he knows you’re doing your best. And loves you for it.

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A recent experiment examined whether the way people interact with horses and donkeys matters for both the animals’ behaviour and the person’s emotional experience.

The study brought together 61 adolescents for a three-minute encounter with miniature horses and donkeys at an animal sanctuary in California.

Before going in, all participants were taught to recognise two clear equine behaviours: “lip wiggling”, which is seen as a friendly, positive sign, and “walking away”, which signals that the animal is choosing to disengage.

They were then split into two groups. One group was told to pet the equine’s back, while the other was told to scratch the neck with small, repetitive movements that mimic how horses and donkeys groom each other.

Emotional state was measured just before and just after the interaction, and participants later reported what they had seen the animals do.

The first clear finding was that even a very short interaction with these miniature equines was linked to better emotional state across the board.

After only three minutes, adolescents reported feeling less nervous and anxious, less sad, and less lonely. They also felt less “amped up” (lower excitement) and more calm.

These changes happened in both the petting and scratching groups, suggesting that brief, structured contact with equines can give a quick emotional lift to young people, including some who were neurodivergent.

The second key finding was that the way participants touched the animals changed how the animals behaved.

Those who used the neck-scratching technique, designed to mimic natural allogrooming, saw much less disengagement from the equines.

In the petting group, 88.9% of participants reported that an equine walked away at some point, compared with only 41.7% in the scratching group.

They also reported more lip wiggling, a friendly affiliative behaviour, with rates rising from 48.1% in the petting condition to 75.0% in the scratching condition.

This shows that a small change in how humans touch equines, from gentle stroking on the back to firmer scratching on the neck, can make the animals more likely to stay engaged and show positive cues.

The third important result was that these differences in animal behaviour were linked to differences in how the participants felt afterwards.

Adolescents who observed lip wiggling reported a larger drop in loneliness than those who did not. Therefore showing when the equine seemed affiliative and engaged, the young person tended to feel a greater reduction in loneliness.

More surprisingly, participants who saw an equine walk away from them reported a larger reduction in sadness than those who did not.

The authors suggest that this may have been caused by the participant perceiving the animal’s choice and autonomy, or by the brief interruption in contact, which could have made the interaction feel more authentic and less pressured.

Full study: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-026-65168-2

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For most of human history, the word used was breaking.

A young horse was run into a corral. Several men roped it and threw it to the ground. They tied up a hind leg to prevent resistance. A saddle was placed on whether the horse cooperated or not. A rider got on. The horse bucked, fought, panicked, and eventually stopped — not because it understood what was being asked, but because it had exhausted its resistance. The term was accurate. Something was broken. The method worked, if you defined worked as producing an animal that tolerated being ridden because the alternative had been worse.

Two brothers on an Oregon cattle ranch grew up learning something different.

Bill Dorrance was born January 19, 1906. His younger brother Tom arrived May 11, 1910. They learned their horsemanship through the Great Basin buckaroo tradition — a lineage rooted in the vaquero culture of Spanish California, brought north through generations of ranch work in Nevada, Oregon, and Idaho. The vaqueros had their own way of starting horses: slower, more patient, built on feel rather than force. They used rawhide hackamores and light aids. They worked with the horse's nature rather than against it. They believed in relationship as a practical matter, not a sentimental one.

Tom, in particular, seemed to receive something from horses that most people couldn't access. He read them the way other people read weather — constantly, precisely, ahead of the event. He developed a habit of asking: what happened, before what happened happened? It was his key to every difficult horse. A horse that wouldn't stand for saddling wasn't being defiant — something had made saddling frightening, and the fear ran back through time to a moment most people had long forgotten. Find the moment. Address the moment. The behavior changes.

People who watched Tom work described the same experience: the horse that had been impossible became willing. He hadn't forced it. He hadn't frightened it more. He had found the thing beneath the thing, and spoken to it in a language the horse understood. Tom called it feel — a concept he spent decades trying and largely failing to put into words, because words were not the medium. "Everything I learned," he said, "I learned from the horse."

Bill complemented Tom's gifts with his own. An exceptional roper and rawhide braider, Bill applied the same sensitivity to groundwork and rope handling that Tom brought to the horse's mind. Between them, they described a complete philosophy: the horse as partner, fear as information, patience as precision, feel as the only language that mattered.

They stayed home. They worked their ranches. They helped neighbors who showed up with horses nobody else could manage. Tom gave a handful of small clinics late in life and found them exhausting. He wasn't a teacher in the formal sense; he was a practitioner, and what he practiced was too subtle to demonstrate on a schedule. If someone wanted to understand, they had to come and watch and wait and ask questions and watch some more.

One person came, watched, waited, asked questions, and then took what he'd learned to a world that had no idea it was waiting for it.

Ray Hunt grew up in southern Idaho during the Depression, the son of a ranch family who raised workhorses. He became a skilled horseman in the traditional mold — capable, competitive, effective. In the late 1950s, he came across a horse named Hondo that his methods couldn't reach. Nothing worked. He asked Bill Dorrance if he had any ideas. Bill suggested he find his brother Tom, who was in Elko, Nevada. Ray tracked Tom down. Tom agreed to come to Ray's place in California that fall to see what they could figure out together.

Nine months after Tom helped Ray work through Hondo, Ray won the 1961 working cow-horse, hackamore class at the Cow Palace in San Francisco — one of the most prestigious competitions in Western riding.

He never forgot the source. "Tom Dorrance is the man who made it possible," Ray said. "Until I met Tom, I wasn't working from the horse's needs."

What Ray understood was that Tom's way of thinking could be taught, given the right conditions — not in one-on-one ranch visits that reached a dozen people a decade, but in clinics, where thirty or fifty or a hundred horse owners at a time could watch and try and fail and try again under Ray's observation. Around 1971, Ray began doing exactly that. He traveled constantly. He started every clinic with the same words, spoken to the horse, in front of whoever had come to watch:

"I'm here for the horse, to help him get a better deal."

He taught them to make the wrong thing difficult and the right thing easy. He taught them that if the horse wasn't responding, the human was asking wrong. He told them what Tom had told him: the horse doesn't lie, doesn't hide, doesn't strategize. The horse tells you exactly where it is, every moment. The only question is whether you're listening.

By the time Ray died in 2009, he had given clinics in every American state and across multiple continents. The students he sent out carried the philosophy further: Buck Brannaman, whose story became a documentary and whose methods inspired the novel and 1998 film The Horse Whisperer; Pat Parelli, who built a global teaching system from the same foundations; Clinton Anderson; Martin Black; a line that runs unbroken to working horsemen today.

Bill Dorrance died in 1999 at ninety-three.
Tom Dorrance died in 2003 at ninety-three.
Ray Hunt died in 2009.

Three quiet men from the rural West. No fame sought, little found until the clinics, no comfort with cameras or crowds. A philosophy that could not be summarized in a sentence and required years to embody. A question that turned everything around:

What happened, before what happened happened?

Every horse trainer who believes a horse has something to say, and that a human who listens carefully enough can hear it — traces that belief, eventually, back here.

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When Caring Gets Complicated:
Introducing Horse-Human Emotional Entanglement 😱

I have another horse problem for you.

Well, technically it is a human problem. The horse just happens to be standing nearby, wondering why you have changed the rules four times in six minutes and are now apologising to him.🫣

I have been noticing a pattern for years among some of the kindest, most conscientious horse owners I meet. These people adore their horses. They notice everything. They worry about whether their horse is frightened, confused, frustrated, overwhelmed, traumatised, over threshold, under threshold and presumably satisfied with the general direction of the relationship.

They want to get it right. And sometimes that becomes part of the problem.

I have started calling this pattern Horse-Human Emotional Entanglement, or HHEE.

HHEE is my proposed term for what can happen when a horse's expressions of anxiety, frustration, uncertainty or resistance create enough emotional discomfort in the human that the human's own feelings begin influencing how they interpret and respond to the horse.

In other words, the horse has a feeling. Then we have a feeling about the horse having a feeling. Before long there are two emotional mammals in the arena and the purpose behind why they are there in the first place has been lost.

The problem isn't caring too much. The problem is becoming so tangled in what the horse is feeling that we lose some of our ability to work out what the horse actually needs.

Imagine asking your horse to move his hindquarters. You apply a light cue. Nothing happens, so you make it clearer. Still nothing. You increase it again and your horse pins his ears, throws his head and swishes his tail.

Suddenly, you aren't thinking about hindquarters anymore. You are wondering whether he dislikes what you are doing, whether you are forcing him, whether he is trying to tell you something, whether this means he doesn't trust you... or whether owning a horse and expecting them to do anything is even ethical. 😕

The hindquarters have been abandoned while we conduct an emergency review of the relationship.

So you soften. Perhaps you stop, stroke him, change the exercise or give him a treat because the atmosphere has become awkward and, frankly, comfort eating is a thing. 🤷‍♀️

The horse settles.

You feel relieved.🥲

And that moment fascinates me, because both of you may just have learned something.

You might think, "See? He relaxed when I stopped."

Yes. But that doesn't necessarily tell us why he was distressed or whether stopping was the right decision. Perhaps he was frightened. Perhaps he was in pain. Perhaps your cue was badly applied. Perhaps he didn't understand. Perhaps he was frustrated because the cue was too vague to make sense, so he decided to investigate whether he could influence YOU. All of those possibilities matter.

But something else happened too.

YOU felt better when you stopped.

Psychology distinguishes between empathic concern, where we care about another individual's distress, and PERSONAL distress, where witnessing their distress produces an uncomfortable emotional response in US.

Both can happen together.

This means we can sincerely believe we are acting entirely for our horse while also being powerfully motivated to make the horse's behaviour stop because it makes US feel better.

That doesn't make us selfish. It makes us human. But it does mean we need to become curious about whose discomfort is driving the decision.

This is where HHEE can become a loop. The horse becomes uncertain and expresses it. The human becomes distressed by the horse's reaction and becomes hesitant, withdraws or tries to smooth everything over. Communication becomes less clear. The horse becomes more uncertain or frustrated. The human becomes more distressed, and around we go.

The irony is that our determination to be kind can sometimes make things considerably more confusing for the horse.

The horse cannot know that you repeated an ambiguous cue seventeen times because you were desperately trying not to upset him. He just experienced seventeen ambiguous cues.

This doesn't mean we should ignore horse behaviour. Quite the opposite. Fear matters. Pain matters. Frustration matters. Resistance matters. But behaviour is information, and information requires interpretation.

Sometimes the correct response is to stop. Sometimes it is to investigate pain. Sometimes it is to make the task easier or change the environment. And sometimes the horse needs us to remain calm, become clearer and help them understand something they are struggling to work out.

Knowing the difference is horsemanship.

So here is the question I want you to sit with:

Am I changing what I'm doing because I have learned something important about my horse, or because my horse's reaction has made me uncomfortable? 🤔

Over the next five days, I am going to unpack HHEE further: why animal lovers may be particularly vulnerable to it, what happens when our horse's emotions become our emotions, how emotional entanglement can inadvertently create confusion for the horse, why becoming clear can feel so difficult, and how we can become calm, secure caregivers without caring any less.

Because perhaps our horses don't need us to feel everything they feel. Perhaps they need us to notice, care and remain sufficiently untangled to help.

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Please consider hitting SHARE. HHEE can be remarkably difficult to recognise in ourselves, yet it may be a significant barrier to the very relationship with our horse that we are trying so hard to protect.❤


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