11/08/2026
When I start with a new client on a behaviour problem, they’re often hugely frustrated that I didn’t see it happen. Didn’t see their dog lose it at another dog on the walk. Didn’t see the frantic jumping and nipping at the kids.
If I’d been there for that moment, I wouldn’t have seen anything useful. I’d have seen a dog who was already past the point of thinking straight. That’s not a training moment, that’s just a dog who got put in a situation that was too much for them.
The behaviour itself is rarely the real problem. It’s the last thing that happens, not the first. By the time you see the jumping, the nipping, the losing it at another dog. there’s usually a whole chain of things that led there. Stress that’s been building. Needs that aren’t being met. Triggers stacking up before you even left the house. That’s what actually needs looking at.
So instead of the meltdown, I want to see everything before it. How your dog is doing on a normal day. What their early signals look like. The exact point things start to tip.
That’s where the work happens, not in the moment everyone remembers, but in the space before it. That’s where you find the real problem, and where you build something new, a little at a time.
Like my dear late friend Oli always told me, train before the crisis!