10/10/2026
Are You Protecting Your Dog, or Are You Creating Its Problems?
There's a psychological condition called Munchausen syndrome by proxy, where someone deliberately creates or falsifies illness in another person.
I'm not suggesting dog owners have this condition, but there's a comparison worth thinking about.
I've met countless owners who genuinely believe their dogs are traumatised, frightened or incapable of coping with everyday life.
And sometimes they're right.
But sometimes the biggest limitation isn't the dog's ability. It's the owner's belief about that ability.
"He can't cope with other dogs."
"He's frightened of strangers."
"He had a bad experience."
So they avoid everything.
Every challenge disappears. Every uncomfortable situation is removed. Every reaction becomes another reason to protect the dog.
And slowly, the dog's world gets smaller.
Here's the uncomfortable truth.
We're dealing with animals descended from predators. Animals capable of causing serious injury, yet we're sometimes treating them as though they're made of glass.
If a dog learns that lunging makes another dog disappear, why wouldn't it repeat that behaviour?
If we never give dogs opportunities to overcome manageable challenges, how can we expect confidence to develop?
I'm not suggesting forcing frightened dogs into situations they cannot handle. That's irresponsible.
I'm talking about recognising the difference between genuine protection and unintentionally maintaining a problem.
You can love your dog unconditionally and still be contributing to its behavioural difficulties.
The behaviour is real. The fear may be real. But our response to it can either help the dog progress or keep it trapped.
And when that dog has the physical ability to hurt someone, the consequences matter.
So ask yourself something.
Am I helping my dog become more capable, or am I teaching it that the world is something to fear?
Sometimes the biggest change doesn't need to happen at the other end of the lead.
It needs to happen at yours.