05/09/2026
🐾 INCA DIARIES ENTRY #4 - Learning to Switch Off
One of the biggest things I’ve been working on with Inca is helping her learn that she doesn’t have to be doing something all the time.
When she first arrived, there was a lot of pacing around the house. Pacing can be common in rescue dogs because they may have spent long periods in environments where they were constantly alert, waiting for something to happen, moving between spaces or unable to properly settle.
Inca had gone from Bosnia, to a pound, to kennels, to foster and then into another completely new home. That’s a huge amount of change in a short space of time.
She also showed some barrier frustration around other dogs. Seeing another dog while behind a physical barrier could make her frustrated and increase her arousal, resulting in lots of barking.
This is something we’ve been working through with Kai’s help!
Kai is completely calm in these situations. He doesn’t react to her behaviour, doesn’t engage with it and simply carries on with what he’s doing.
That’s been really useful for Inca because she’s repeatedly seeing that another dog being behind a barrier doesn’t actually mean anything needs to happen. There’s no escalation, no interaction and no reward for getting worked up.
Over time, she’s been able to take more information from him, recover more quickly and start making different choices herself.
During the first week with us, Inca was drinking a lot of water, particularly when she was unsettled. Excessive or repetitive drinking can be seen in dogs coming from kennel environments, where access to water, routine and environmental stimulation can be very different from a home setting. It can also become a displacement behaviour when a dog is frustrated, conflicted or unsure - essentially giving them something else to do when they don’t quite know what to do with that feeling.
Her crate routine has been another really important part of teaching her to switch off.
She has plenty of opportunities for exercise, training, enrichment, exploration and fulfilment throughout the day, but she also has structured periods of rest. The crate gives her a predictable place where she can stop looking for the next thing to do.
As she gets more comfortable, I’ll gradually introduce place training, building her understanding that she can settle and switch off even while life continues around her.
Alongside all of this, getting her nutrition and sleep right has been really important too. She arrived needing to put weight on, so food, fulfilment, activity and proper rest have all been part of getting her into a better place.
She’s still very much a work in progress, but we’re starting to see a much more settled dog emerging.
Sometimes the training is simply teaching a dog that nothing is happening - and that that’s okay