09/05/2026
Today, part of Arnhem went home to the mountains. It is one month today that he left us.
We scattered some of his ashes on a Welsh mountainside — a place that meant so much to him and John. Their place. Somewhere they escaped to together, where life slowed down and nothing else mattered except fresh air, open space, and companionship.
He ran free there. Swam in the lake without a care in the world. Sat watching the sun disappear behind the mountains, only to wake and watch it rise again the next morning.
It was where Arnhem looked happiest. Strong, adventurous, peaceful, and completely himself.
The mountains gave him freedom when his body still allowed it, and now they will keep a part of him forever.
As hard as it was to say goodbye again, there was comfort in knowing he is back in one of the places he loved most — carried by the wind, the water, and the hills he once explored with the person he adored most.
His happy place. Always.