12/07/2023
TIREDNESS, COMPASSION FATIGUE AND TOTAL BREAKDOWN
- Sh*t, it happened to me…
As many of you may have noticed, there as not been any update in this page for a while…
Well, that’s because I’ve been totally off for a while.
At the end of the last year, I found myself in a tricky mental situation where I experienced what it’s called in the dog training industry “Compassion Fatigue”.
Compassion fatigue comes up when we as professionals come to a point of depletion on our compassion/caring reservoirs due to the type of work we do and the situations we experience.
This can happen to anyone, but certainly faster and more intensely to those who care a great deal for their clients, both dogs and humans, and find it hard to disconnect from the situations they are presented with or the problems they are trying to solve day after day.
I faced the start of compassion fatigue well before the end of the last year, but I wasn’t aware at the time. I thought I was just tired, just in need of some holidays. And to be honest I thought I would never experience it. Cause I though I was strong, strong enough to keep facing day after day the world of fearful, reactive, and aggressive behaviour in dogs. I thought I could keep going with the demand, the requests, the problems, the solutions, and everything in between…
But no. I didn’t.
And at the end, I faced total breakdown, like a sudden wave that hits the shore.
No notice or strenght to think anymore about it.
I simply had to stop, simply had to move out, simply forget temporarily about all this work I’ve been doing for years...
Now that I feel better, I can write this, I can process all of it with a stable mind and share it with all of you who have been following my work and those who may think to request my help.
I would also like to take this opportunity to apologise to all of those people that tried to get in touch with me meanwhile and never got an answer, and also to those people that I never got back to… I’m sorry about that. It wasn't about any of you, with was all on me...
I still love dogs, I still love people, I still find it a great mission to improve the life of them.
But at this point I need to find my way back, a way that will be more healthy for myself.
With this in mind, there are many questions I need to find an answer for, before I re-start any work in this field.
So for now and until further notice, I will continue to be off from my services and my business and I truly hope there will be someone out there who can help those in need with the same love and caring I did for all my clients, both humans and dogs.
Thank you for reading,
Ricardo Ministro