27/07/2026
Really good breakdown of why the seemingly small things matter a great deal!
-How your dog enters and exits the crate—patiently and awaiting your cue, or is it a pushy, chaotic mess?
-How your dog enters and exits thresholds—patiently and awaiting your cue, or is it a pushy, chaotic mess?
-How your dog enters and exits the car—patiently and awaiting your cue, or is it a pushy, chaotic mess?
-How your dog eats—waiting for permission or diving in as soon as the food is set down?
-The walk—walking with a loose leash, at your side and pace, no zig-zagging, no dragging you to go mark, or is it a pulling, chaotic, battle of wills with explosive reactivity added in for fun?
-Rules of the house—is your dog calm, polite, and respectful inside, do they respect your boundaries in regards to furniture, personal space, off-limit areas, or is the house a free-for-all, with chaos and dog-rules reigning supreme?
-Play—does it start and end on your word? Is it polite and respectful, even when your dog is super jazzed up?
-Off-Leash behavior—does you dog listen reliably the first time you issue a command, regardless of what enticing distraction is occurring in the environment, or are you yelling commands repeatedly and praying they actually listen?
-And any other rules, standards, expectations you have for your dog—or should have.
All of these activities, interactions, moments are far more than just your dog doing something. They’re deep conversations between you and your dog which establish either a healthy relationship dynamic, or something very different. They also have a huge impact on your dog’s general attitude and demeanor, how they move through the world, and the choices they make.
The biggest cause of disharmony between dogs and humans, as well as serious behavior problems is the simple fact that 99% of owners don’t see these activities, interactions, moments for the profoundly valuable conversations that they truly are.
And so instead of stacking countless healthy conversations which move things in a positive direction, owners stack countless unhealthy conversations which move things in a decidedly negative direction.
Thus the majority of quality dog training is simply reversing all of the negative activities, interactions, moments, and resetting the dog’s relationship to humans, and resetting the dog’s attitude, demeanor, and choices.
The other options that you can learn to see all this stuff yourself for what it actually is, and you can become your own dog trainer. :)