28/09/2026
Understanding HOW your dog communicates is quite possibly the most important part of cooperative care training.
This can look different for every dog, although there are some similarities in how dogs show stress. In this clip, you can see that when I ask if pup is ready (my hand is raised), he diverts his gaze, gives a clear tongue flick and subtly turns his head away from me.
Other behaviours you might spot are them physically moving away, showing the whites of their eyes, yawning, stiffening, exposing their belly, tucking their tail between their legs, pinning their ears back...the list goes on!
Now two things are important here:
these behaviours are out of context - if you've just given your dog a treat and they're licking their lips, but their ears are pricked forwards and their body language is loose, they're probably not too worried. But if you've asked to see their paw and they give a little flick of the tongue whilst their body stiffens and they avert their gaze...that's your sign they're not comfortable!
Every dog is different. It's always a learning curve when starting cooperative care - you have to learn how your dog communicates, and they also have to learn how you communicate, it's a two-way street! I always recommend recording your sessions so you can watch them back and see if you can spot frequent behaviours or more subtle signs your dog isn't comfortable that you might have missed in the moment.
Cooperative care takes time to work on, but the results are honestly incredible, the change you'll see in your relationship between you and your dog is immense, and this transfers to all other parts of life with your dog.
Getting started with cooperative care is really a no-brainer to me - get started with your dog and let me know how your dog communicates!
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