24/08/2026
Today’s session with Dolly and her devoted mum was all about building security around resources,not simply teaching Dolly to “give things up".
Resource guarding can involve much more than food or toys. For some dogs, valuable resources can include toys, spaces, objects, or even a favourite person’s attention and affection. When a dog feels that something valuable might be taken away, the emotional response can be one of insecurity, anxiety or conflict.
So rather than confronting the guarding behaviour, our goal was to change the underlying emotional picture: “When another dog is nearby, good things still happen, and I am safe.”
We began on neutral ground, allowing Dolly time to decompress and explore. There were plenty of new scents and environmental information, so she was initially a little distracted, completely understandable in a novel environment.
We then introduced my dog Max gradually and carefully.
The priority was never to push Dolly beyond her threshold. We watched her body language continuously, adjusted distance and intensity, and reinforced the behaviours we wanted to see, calmness, engagement with her mum, waiting, checking in and choosing self-control.
Dolly absolutely amazed us.
From the very beginning, she appeared genuinely comfortable around Max. Most importantly, throughout the session we saw no obvious resource-guarding responses, even during situations that would normally be challenging for her.
One particularly valuable exercise involved Mum giving Max close affection, kisses and cuddles while Dolly was nearby.
Instead of assuming that Dolly should tolerate this and simply putting her through it, we created carefully controlled opportunities for her to experience the situation while remaining under threshold.
Whenever Dolly remained calm, that calmness was reinforced. We aren't rewarding Dolly for suppressing a reaction. We are helping her repeatedly experience that another dog receiving attention does not mean she is losing something, being excluded or becoming unsafe.
Over repeated, carefully managed experiences, this can help build a different association.