15/10/2026
We often teach our dogs to tune us out without even realising weâre doing it. The things that create this habit can seem completely harmless in the moment.
đž Calling them when we donât actually need them to come.
đž Repeating a cue over and over until they eventually respond.
đž Saying ânoâ without showing them what we actually want them to do.
đž Giving a command weâre not prepared to follow through on.
đž Changing the rules depending on the day, our mood or the situation.
None of these feels like a big deal in the moment.
But your dog isnât learning from what you meant. Theyâre learning from what consistently happens.
If âcomeâ means come eventually, âsitâ means sit after five repetitions, and âleave itâ sometimes matters and sometimes doesnât, your dog learns that your first cue doesnât necessarily mean anything.
Reliability isnât built by shouting louder, repeating yourself or demanding more.
Itâs built by teaching clearly, rewarding the behaviours you want and being consistent with what your cues mean.
And remember, if your dog struggles to respond, it isnât always stubbornness. Distractions, stress, fear and arousal can all affect their ability to respond.
The answer isnât simply to expect more from your dog. Itâs to make learning easier and build reliability gradually.
Stop repeating. Start teaching.
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