01/09/2026
Small dog owners aren’t going to like this.
If your dog reacts, barks, lunges or refuses to move and your first response is to pick it up, ask yourself one question:
Would you do it if your dog weighed 40kg?
If the answer is no, why is it the solution at 4kg?
Size changes the consequences of behaviour. It doesn’t change the behaviour.
We expect large dogs to develop boundaries, resilience and neutrality — yet too often we physically remove small dogs from situations instead of teaching them how to cope with them.
There are absolutely times when picking a dog up is necessary for safety.
But safety and habit aren’t the same thing.
So here’s the controversial bit:
Do small dogs have more behavioural problems — or have we simply normalised behaviour from them that we’d never tolerate from a 40kg dog?
Agree or disagree?