18/08/2026
🐶 A dog does NOT need to like every dog it meets.
Yep… I said it! 😂
One of the biggest misconceptions I see with socialisation is that our dogs need to meet, greet and interact with every dog they come across.
They don’t.
A well-socialised dog isn’t necessarily the dog that wants to play with every dog it sees. It’s the dog that can remain calm, well-mannered and engaged with its owner while other dogs, people and distractions are happening around them.
And this is something I really want owners to think about…
If every time your dog sees another dog, you allow them to rush over and say hello, what are you teaching them?
“Dogs = I get to go over there!”
So when you eventually say no, keep walking or ask them to stay with you, they can become frustrated because they’ve learned to expect that interaction.
Instead, teach your dog that calm behaviour gets them what they want.
Want to go say hello? Calm first.
Want to investigate something? Calm first.
Want to continue walking? Calm first.
Want freedom and rewards? Calm, engaged behaviour gets you there.
We want our dogs to learn that being calm, listening and engaging with their owner is what makes good things happen. 🐾
That might mean walking past another dog without pulling.
Looking at another dog and then choosing to look back at you.
Ignoring distractions because their owner is more valuable.
Waiting patiently instead of demanding access.
Being able to exist around other dogs without feeling like they HAVE to interact.
And sometimes, yes, appropriate interaction with another dog can absolutely be part of a dog’s life.
But it shouldn’t be the expectation every single time.
Socialisation isn’t teaching your dog to love every dog.
It’s teaching them how to cope with the world around them, make good choices, remain calm under distraction and look to you for guidance.
Because ultimately, I don’t want a dog that thinks:
“I need to get to that dog!”
I want a dog that thinks:
“There’s a dog… but my human is over here.” 👀
Calm gets access. Calm gets rewards. Calm gets freedom.