27/08/2026
Socialisation isn't a checklist your puppy has to complete.
For a long time, socialising a puppy has often been thought of as meeting lots of dogs and people so they don't become scared, taking them into busy places to “get them used to it” and giving them as many different experiences as possible while they're young.
More isn't always better.
I still see the effects of this when I'm working with adolescent and older dogs. Some have learned that seeing another dog or person means they should be able to go and say hello, and can become frustrated, over excited or reactive when they can't get to them.
I've also seen dogs in busy environments trying to make themselves as small as possible, stopping in their tracks or simply shutting down. They may have been exposed to that environment before, but that doesn't necessarily mean it was a positive experience for them.
That's why Thoughtful Socialisation is such an important part of The Creative Puppy Programme.
For me, it's about quality over quantity. It's watching the puppy in front of you, noticing their confidence, curiosity and body language and asking yourself whether this particular experience is right for them at this moment in time.
It's making decisions based on what your puppy needs, rather than because there's something on a list somewhere that says they should have experienced it by now.
Part of that will be helping your puppy learn that being around other dogs doesn't always mean they need to interact with them. There may be opportunities for carefully managed greetings when the puppies involved are ready, but learning to simply be around one another comfortably is valuable too.
Socialisation won't be something we talk about during one week of the programme and then move on from either. Puppies will continue to encounter new people, places, surfaces, sounds and situations throughout their lives. The aim isn't to try to fit every possible experience into those early weeks, but to help you understand how to approach new experiences with your individual puppy.
We'll keep coming back to socialisation in different ways throughout the programme, helping you learn how to watch your puppy and make thoughtful decisions for them as you experience the world together.
Quality over quantity will win for me every time. Take your time, be mindful and work with your puppy and their needs. ❤️
What's been your biggest socialisation worry with your puppy: other dogs, people, new places, knowing how much is too much, or something else entirely?
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