03/09/2026
πΎ MEET THE SIT WALK STAY FAMILY - AURORA π
The newest addition to the Sit Walk Stay familyβ¦ and quite possibly the biggest injection of chaos. π
Aurora joined us just under two months ago, and although I've fostered dogs alongside Roary before, this time felt different.
I wasn't simply looking for another dog, I was looking for Roary's dog π₯Ή
But bringing a second dog into the family isn't just about whether the two dogs get along.
One thing I think we can easily fall into with multi-dog households is treating our dogs like one body with two heads - they walk together, train together, go everywhere together and gradually become known simply as 'the dogs'
But they're still two individuals.
And since Aurora arrived, I've been conscious that I'm actually nurturing several relationships:
π Me & Roary - protecting the relationship we've spent years building.
π Me & Aurora - building trust and discovering who she is.
π Roary & Aurora - giving them space to develop their own relationship naturally.
π₯° All three of us - learning how to live, adventure and work together as a team.
That means sometimes doing things separately.
Separate walks. Separate training. One-to-one time. Different hobbies and different forms of fulfilment.
Roary doesn't stop being Roary because Aurora arrived, and Aurora doesn't have to become an extension of him.
They're two individual dogs who are learning how to become part of something together π€
And honestly, Aurora has reinforced just how important that individuality is.
Take exercise π
I could walk her for an hour and she's come home wondering what we're doing next π
Give her 15 minutes of focused gundog work, retrieving, searching, using her nose and working alongside me, and she'll happily come home and sleep.
Fulfilment isn't measured in miles.
Sometimes our dogs DON'T need more βοΈ
They need more of the RIGHT thing β
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And once I started really understanding what Aurora needed?
She's actually pretty easy to live with.
She came from a busy household and initially struggled to properly switch off, so learning that rest is safe and she doesn't always need to be doing something has been just as important as the exciting stuff.
We've also been building confidence around things she found worrying - harnesses, collars and having her ears handled.
She now happily lets me handle those ears, which is fortunate considering they seem genetically engineered to collect every seed in Hampshire ππΎ Hence the very glamorous aeroplane ear muffs βοΈπ
She's even sent me down a completely new rabbit hole with double coats and grooming β οΈ
Oh. The. Hair!!!
Aurora had been shaved before coming to us, so I've been learning much more about double-coat maintenance, coat health and regrowth while we hopefully watch hers recover over the coming months from coat damage.
It's given me an even greater appreciation for knowledgeable professional groomers and reinforced that grooming isn't simply cosmetic, it's part of our dogs welfare.
And I think that's what these first two months with Aurora have really been about:
Learning the dog in front of me.
Her genetics.
Her communication.
Her fears.
Her hobbies.
Her body.
Her ridiculous Springador brain π
She's completely bonkers, ridiculously clever, incredibly affectionate and has taught me an entirely new appreciation for lint rollers.
But most importantly, we're not rushing her into becoming part of some finished picture.
I'm building my relationship with her.
I'm protecting my relationship with Roary.
They're building theirs.
And together, we're becoming a team π₯Ήπ€
Less than two months in, I genuinely can't imagine our little family without her.
And I have a feeling she still has an awful lot left to teach me.
Behaviour is communication πΎ