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Nicky Lord - Coaching & Horsemanship Equine Welfare focused Coach, Ethical & Natural
Horsemanship Trainer/rider.

By using behavioural ethology, welfare science and consultation, I can help horses, 1 human at a time

30/09/2026
17/09/2026

✂️ Clipping, Trimming & Equine Behaviour — Building Confidence, Not Fear 🐴

The time of year is here when the clippers and trimmers come out, and for some horses, this may be their first experience of them.

For others, they may have previously tolerated clipping but become particularly anxious when their legs, head, ears or other sensitive areas are approached.

From an equine behavioural perspective, introducing clipping is much more than simply getting the job done. The sound, vibration, movement and sensation of a clipper or trimmer can be highly novel and potentially threatening to a horse. To them, that buzzing machine may initially be perceived as something unpredictable coming towards their body — and their response is influenced by their previous experiences, individual temperament, learning history and current emotional state.

This is why slow, systematic introduction combined with positive reinforcement can be so valuable.

Rather than forcing the horse to tolerate something frightening, we can use small, achievable steps to change the horse’s emotional and behavioural response. Through clicker training and positive reinforcement, the horse is given clear information about which behaviours we want to reinforce. Calm investigation, standing quietly, allowing the equipment to approach, or accepting the sensation can all be reinforced.

Over repeated successful experiences, the horse can begin to form a different association with the equipment: the clippers predict something positive, I have time to process what is happening, and I am safe.

This is an important principle of behavioural modification — we are not simply looking for compliance; we are working towards reducing fear and increasing confidence and predictability.

I personally tend to leave areas such as the head, ears and legs until later if a horse is unsure. I want the horse to have first experienced the sound, vibration and sensation of the equipment in less challenging areas and to have developed some confidence before progressing.

Rushing straight in, attempting to clip sensitive areas, or becoming frustrated because a horse won’t stand may take the person five minutes — but that experience can have a much longer-lasting effect on the horse.

A negative experience can create a strong learned association, meaning that what was initially a small concern can become an increasingly difficult behavioural problem the next time the clippers appear.

The same applies to horses that happily accept a body clip but become anxious when their legs are approached. If we push beyond what the horse can cope with, we risk sensitisation and an escalation of the behavioural response, making future clipping considerably more challenging.

🐴 FREE BEHAVIOUR-MODIFICATION SESSIONS — OCTOBER

During October, I am offering two FREE 60-minute sessions to two horse owners who would benefit from support with clipping or trimming.

I am looking for:

1️⃣ A horse having its first clip. A nervous or unsure horse that has little or no previous experience of clipping.

2️⃣ A horse that struggles with clipping. A horse that becomes fearful, resistant or difficult when being clipped or trimmed, particularly where previous experiences may have contributed to the problem.

This is NOT a clipping service.

The purpose of the session is to work with the horse to better understand their behavioural response and begin modifying that response using positive reinforcement and clicker training.

We will work at the horse’s individual pace, breaking the process down into manageable stages and reinforcing desirable responses. The aim is to build confidence and create a more positive association with clipping equipment rather than simply expecting the horse to tolerate it.

If the horse is comfortable and time allows, we can progress towards a partial clip. For example, we may begin with a bib clip or another small area and gradually work towards a trace clip, depending entirely on the horse’s response.

The horse’s emotional state and ability to cope will always take priority over completing the clip.

📍 Alford, Lincolnshire
🚗 Travel fees apply beyond 20 miles from Alford.

🎥 Videos from each session will be shared on Nicky Lord – Coaching & Horsemanship, demonstrating the process and how positive reinforcement can be used to support horses through potentially challenging experiences.

💙 Shadow

Shadow recently had his legs tidied with the trimmers following an introduction where he was extremely nervous and initially said “no” to having his legs trimmed.

Rather than forcing the issue, we worked through his concerns, giving him time to process the equipment and reinforcing the behaviours we wanted to see.

Look at him now. 🥰

He has learned that the trimmers don’t have to mean something frightening, and that he can trust me to listen to his communication and work with him rather than against him.

That trust is something I value enormously.

📱 Interested in being considered for one of the two free sessions?

WhatsApp me with some information about your horse, where you are currently at with clipping/trimming, and what you are finding difficult.

A session of this type would normally be £50 and I will bring a heavy-duty cordless clipper and lightweight trimmers.

The goal isn’t simply to get the clip done. It’s to help the horse understand that clipping doesn’t have to be something to fear. 🐴❤️





Busy pony day today starting with taking the baby horse Willow to Field Farm for a hack around the chasers fields and in...
03/09/2026

Busy pony day today starting with taking the baby horse Willow to Field Farm for a hack around the chasers fields and introduce her to the big water! Another great place on our doorstep to introduce youngsters too. By midday another 4 year old mare paid a visit to the yard. The gorgeous Alora had a canter in the school which wow was so comfy; she’s going to be mega. This pretty young mare will accompany Willow this autumn on some low key outings to give them a little more experience and confidence. Headed off to south of the county in the afternoon for coaching, however change of plans meant I hacked out Mr D, a huge and gorgeous Warmblood instead. Accompanied by Helen, Lisa, Riley and Lottie, the weather was so warm, and couldn’t have been any more perfect. The only sad part of the day was heading home where it was starting to get dark, a sure reminder of what has yet to come and how quickly time has flown this summer 🌓

02/09/2026

💚 I have a big love for mares at the moment. 💚

I support horses and their people with training, riding and behavioural issues, and I probably get called out to more mares than geldings! I honestly think mares are often misunderstood.

Some people are less tolerant of a mare, particularly when she is in season. The term “mareish” is often used to describe everything from being opinionated and sensitive to becoming difficult, reactive or inconsistent, both in ridden work and from the ground. However, when we look at mares through an evolutionary and behavioural lens, some of these traits start to make much more sense.

Horses evolved as highly social, herd-living prey animals. In natural populations, mares often form the stable core of social groups, developing long-term relationships with other mares and their offspring. They can be highly observant of their environment and very selective about who they trust. Their role in raising and protecting offspring also means that being aware, responsive and able to make decisions can be incredibly valuable traits.

Mares are also reproductively cyclical, and hormonal changes associated with the oestrous cycle can influence behaviour in some mares. That doesn’t mean every change in behaviour is simply because she’s in season. Pain, discomfort, ulcers, musculoskeletal issues, management, training, social environment and learned associations can all play a part. Understanding the individual mare rather than dismissing her behaviour is therefore incredibly important.

And then there is the relationship you can develop with a mare. ❤️ A mare who truly trusts you can form an incredibly deep partnership with her human. There can be something very special about earning the confidence of a horse who is thoughtful, discerning and selective about where she places her trust.

The relationship with a mare can feel different from the relationship you might have with a gelding. Not necessarily better or worse, just different. Some mares seem to have an incredible ability to tell you exactly what they think, and once you learn to listen rather than constantly try to override them, the partnership can become something really special.

I think this is also why some people struggle with mares. They can be more expressive, more sensitive, more opinionated and sometimes less likely to tolerate something they don’t understand or agree with. For a rider or owner who expects a horse to quietly comply, that can be frustrating.

For me, the qualities mares have are often exactly what make them so rewarding.

When you find a good mare, and you take the time to understand her rather than fight her, she can give you absolutely everything.

And when that trust is earned, there is something very special about being her person. 🐴💚

Video - hacking a beautiful and confident mare for the owner, who has a wonderful bond with her.

Really pleased with Willow and her first look at a little ditch at Well Vale country ride this week. For the most of thi...
02/09/2026

Really pleased with Willow and her first look at a little ditch at Well Vale country ride this week. For the most of this ride she walked around on the buckle end and felt amazing. We have a beach trip lined up which will be fun and I’m still trying to find a free day to introduce her to hound exercise with Cranwell BH to see how she is within a larger group. Loving the journey with this little mare 💜






27/08/2026

Willow’s first time indoors having a pop over a few poles today with the brilliant help from Jackie Tutt. Willow went very green bless her but managed to canter really well through poles and make a nice shape over some of the fences as well as made some baby mistakes. Will be interesting to see how she feels going back in a couple of weeks. On the limited jumping she has done, she feels pretty bold in an outdoor arena so sure we can get her feeling more confident inside 💜 The scary moment for her was walking in through those big doors, not being sure what was on the other side. Thank you to the lady who gave us a lead in on her horsey👌

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