07/08/2026
HE'S ONLY GONE AND DONE IT. 🥹❤️
Three days in a row.
Three days of Ziggy allowing me to touch him.
And today felt like another little piece of the puzzle falling into place.
For anyone who hasn't been following Ziggy's story, when he arrived in June he wouldn't come within around 10 feet of me. The slightest movement could send him away. Touch wasn't even on the radar.
Today, he was lying in his crate with his front legs stretched out towards me.
I brought him some chicken and vegetable broth with his kibble in it. I scooped the kibble out with my hand and fed him. He was fascinated by what I was doing — ears forward, watching my hand, licking my hand and then looking back at the bowl as if to say, "Right, do that again."
We ate together.
We opened packets together.
He investigated the yoghurt carton.
He took frankfurter from my hand.
And in amongst all of that, I started gently touching around his neck and collar area.
There was some whale eye.
Of course there was.
I'm not going to pretend he suddenly thought, "Oh brilliant, a human hand on my neck!" 😂
But what mattered was what happened next.
He didn't retreat.
He didn't make himself smaller.
He didn't try to get away.
He took the food and immediately went back to what he was doing.
At one point, while I was touching around his neck, he actually leaned forward and continued licking his broth.
That tells me far more than simply saying, "He let me touch him."
And yes, I know what some people will say.
"But he was in his crate. He couldn't get away."
And yes — being in the crate reduced his flight options.
I was completely aware of that.
That's why I was watching his body language constantly.
If I'd seen him shutting down, becoming tense, retreating to the back of the crate or showing sustained distress, I would have stopped immediately.
But that isn't what I saw.
I saw a dog who was able to stay engaged with me, eat, investigate, recover from small environmental distractions and continue interacting.
A car went past quite close to the fence while we were together.
Ziggy looked towards it.
And then came straight back to me.
Previously, something like that could have sent him into pacing and taken him away from us for a while.
That's a HUGE change.
So, could I put a lead on Ziggy now?
Yes.
Am I going to?
No. Not yet.
And that's an important distinction.
I'm not interested in getting a lead on him simply so I can say "Ziggy is now lead trained."
I'm interested in building something much more valuable first.
Trust.
I want these experiences of being touched, being close to me, having his collar area handled and sharing these little moments together to become normal.
I want his brain to learn:
"This human does things around me. Sometimes she touches me. Good things happen. Nothing bad happens. I can stay. I can choose to engage."
And then we'll build from there.
How long will that take?
I don't know.
And I'm not going to put a deadline on it.
Ziggy will tell me.
What I do know is that eight weeks ago I couldn't have imagined sitting this close to him, feeding him from my hand, touching his neck and watching him continue eating his dinner.
So yes...
He's only gone and done it. ❤️
And I'm incredibly proud of him.