10/08/2026
No s**t. Imagine that....
A beautiful haircut, or just a completed one in some cases, on a terrified dog is not a win.
Let me tell you how so much of the industry still does this:
The dog doesn't want to be groomed, so it gets restrained to a point that it can’t breathe if it looks down, can’t sit even if it’s sore and probably gets yelled at about how it’s ruining the groomer’s day….and then gets finished anyway.
Whatever it takes to get through it. The dog fights, it’s restrained and overpowered, the groom gets done, and the dog goes home looking great.
I’ve seen it far too often over the years.
It's the dark side no one likes talking about.
The dog, if it’s polite about its frustration and terror, learned that being handled is a fight it loses. It learned the person holding it can't be trusted. And it learned the only way out is to endure until it stops. So they endure, but go home “happy go lucky” because dogs don’t rationalize - they live in the moment - so if the last five minutes are happy-happy, joy-joy, they look like they are just fine.
Probably it comes back worse and then eventually we tell the owner, "aw, she just hates grooming but she does fine.”
She doesn't hate grooming. She’s been taught to, and doesn’t, trust. For good reason.
Here's the thing. A dog doesn’t need to love grooming, but they should not ever have to fear it.
They can very “easily” even the “difficult” ones, be helped to tolerate the whole process without fear.
They can understand what's expected, and learn the “job”.
The table is predictable. The person handling it gives guidance and positive reinforcement, not just bulldozing every signal the dog tries to give.
It stops fighting because it’s actually realized what the task is from a trusted handler.
AND the result is more confidence, less stress.
AND THEN, I get DMs like this:
“Good morning Dallas. Did you do voodoo on my dog?! Ha. Seriously is a different dog. Same, but different. He still has moods but has been more trusting. Crazy”
No s**t. Imagine that. 🤘🏼