10/16/2026
Part 1 of Flame's update for this week, showing some of the other things we were doing to build her confidence with things above her, things moving above her, things touching her, and so on. Flame had her initial halter training and handling in May with us for 30 days, then went home and returned a couple months ago to begin under saddle and we have been working through a slew of anxiety with her, no fault of anyone's, just the type of mare she is. We are making progress, it is just slower. But there is nothing wrong with that. It means developing those tools in her to relax, rather than just pushing her through things. A horse cannot learn when they are ALWAYS tense, anxious, scared and bracing. That foundation cannot properly "stick". A horse that can relax, can learn. As the saying goes, when you train by force and fear, there will always be something at some point they fear more than you. We do things differently around here. We build connection, trust, relaxation and confidence. It might take a tad longer, but the HORSE benefits from it more. It is us humans that put the timeline on things, not the horse. Flame's solution to a lot of things has been to bolt, and blindly run. She doesn't pay attention when she gets in that state, the legs just go. That isn't a safe situation for her, myself, her future riders, nobody. It is much better for FLAME for us to take our time, develop those different stages and help her learn.
You'll see that hard work starting to pay off by watching her body posture begin to finally relax, and watching her softly respond to the halter and my hand even when she gets a bit nervous. It has been a bit of a long road with this little pony mare, but part 2 will show you where that road has gotten to! She is starting to trust the process, gain confidence, and things above her doesn't mean the end of times.
Flame
3yr old Davenport Arab x Welsh pony cross mare
Client owned