06/03/2026
Absolutely
The question is, do you want the dog to truly feel okay and learn to be comfortable being touched by strangers, or do you not care about the dog's feelings and just want a title?
If you have a genuine concern for the actual well-being of the dog, you will want the progress they make with being touched by strangers ie. examined by a judge, to be honest. Honest progress means the dog actually learns to feel okay. They aren't just standing stock still because they are so afraid of the handler that standing still is the safest thing for them to do.
I actually had a client tell me that their handler told them, "you need to make the dog more afraid of you than they are of the judge". Um, what? As disgusting as this sentiment is, unfortunately it's not uncommon. Many people, even those that are supposed to be experts, don't understand how to properly work through fear issues with a dog. And sadly, many don't care, they just want to get the dog finished and will do whatever is necessary to make that happen.
If you want the dog to truly enjoy showing and being touched by people, the work you do must be systematic and well thought out. It's not just forcing and drilling dogs. It's not blaming the dog or labeling him "stubborn" or "willfull" or "spoiled". There's no quick fix. Knowledgable and skilled behavior consultants know this and that's why we carefully design training plans that put the dog's well-being above all else, including winning ribbons or gaining titles.
If you want to learn how to best help your sensitive, shy or fearful dog learn to enjoy the show ring, check out From Shy to Showy. Available as a book, an audiobook, an online course or work with Vicki one-on-one.
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