10/08/2026
Mediumship circle
September 21, 2026
Last night I went to a mediumship circle hosted by Julie-Anne Hyatt. I have been to a few circles with her to participate in Family Constellations, a spiritual healing modality to resolve family trauma.
A group of us sat in chairs and couches in a large room on the top floor of Julie-Ann’s home. We faced her and sat in quiet as she opened the circle and took a big breath in. My eyes are closed, my palms turned upwards on my lap and my heart is open.
Katherine. Your mom is here.
I open my eyes abruptly from the meditative state I was in. Is she talking to me? If anyone came through, it would be my dad.
Yes. She was looking directly at me.
She wants you to know she is sorry she left so young. She felt called to go to the Other Side. It was a very strong calling for her. She loves you very much. Julie-Ann cried as she relayed this message from my mom. She loves you so much, I feel it so strongly.
I was crying with her. I haven’t had contact with my mom for forty years.
She loves you so much. She is very proud of you and the life you have created. She is saying it took a long time for you to stand up for yourself and that you are standing strong now. Yes, I nodded, that felt true.
She never liked him. You know who I am talking about? Yes I nodded.
But you have beautiful children so he gets bonus points for that. I smiled. Yes I would not have my children that I love so deeply, without him. It felt important to give him credit as the children’s father.
She wants to know if you have any questions. She feels very strong here, some spirits come in weaker or just pop in. But she is coming through very strongly.
I was thrilled to ask questions. I was self conscious that I was in a group of twenty other people. But I had so many questions, it’s been so long since I have talked to her.
I would like to know why she left us with her brother? To put it politely, he was very corrupt. I was on the edge of my seat with anticipation of her response.
She looked up and listened for a few seconds. She drew in a big breath before speaking. She wanted to keep it in the family. She gestured with her arms a gathering motion inwards. And it was best financially for you. It was financial. I nodded, yes that made sense. Even though he stole from my brother and I, as orphans, he provided us with schooling and we still did get some of our inheritance.
And she kicked his butt for that later. I laughed at the idea of her as a Spirit kicking her brother’s shameful butt. It felt good to bring in humour to a heavy experience.
Do you have any more questions? She asked brightly. I scanned my mind quickly. This opportunity was so unexpected.
Well, I work in the ephemeral whelm almost everyday and I don’t feel her, how can I feel connection with her? I have not really felt her presence and I thought she wanted to be left alone. I have felt my dad often and I thought he would come through. I am still in awe that she is coming through now.
She says when you touch the horse. Well there are a few horses, but one horse in particular. The special one. You know the one? Yes I nodded and smiled and cried all at the same time. She was talking about Teddy.
When you put your hand on the horse, her hand is on yours or your hand is on hers. She is with you. And she likes it when you brush his tail. This resonated deeply for me because she loved animals very much. Our family included dogs, cats, parrots, pigeons and mice! It reminded me that my love of animals came from her. Now we can connect through my bond with Teddy. What a magical message.
I have one more question. I asked urgently. I didn’t want to take up too much time. Others were waiting for their turn.
I didn’t realize it would be so hard to raise children without grandparents. Is there a connection she has with my son? Is there a way for my kids to know her?
There is an ethnic name, that she wants to be called? She responded casually.
Yes she was Polish. Babcia is grandma in Polish. I followed. ��Ok, yes she doesn’t want to be called grandma, call her Babcia to the kids. She says to live life and just go for it. Your son is a lot like you. He is into sports. And you have a daughter too. You had a hard time with her, just teenage stuff, and she helped smooth that out. Does she like make up? When she is putting on makeup, she stands behind your daughter, you can tell your daughter that. You are a very good mother. She wants you to know that. She is so proud of you.
This all made so much sense. My mom was really into make-up because her appearance was important to her. She liked to host parties and be in the public eye. And how meaningful for her to connect with my daughter in that way.
I have often felt insecure as a mother because I didn’t have a mother for very long. I had to improvise on my own as I raised my kids. Her validation and praise was reassuring for me.
And yes, my son is like me in many ways. We are both into sports. It grounds us to exercise. I feel more connection with him after this reminder.
I understood why she didn’t want to be called Grandma. Her mother raised us with her brother. Grandma was complicit in her son’s strategies of deceiving my brother and I. And I have heard stories she wasn’t very close to her mom. So the name Babcia felt right on multiple levels, a fresh new name that she could live through.
The mediumship experience with my mom is so healing. She is taking on a new form in my life. She is not my mom who died when I was eleven years old. She is also Babcia and her grandchildren can know her, as her life continues through them. I am reimagining my relationship with her and with my kids. She is present in our lives. She is not absent, the forty years of absence is over! I will talk to her about the kids and tell them more about their Babcia, their Polish Grandma. Who they never knew in person, but will get to know through love, memories and Spirit.