09/02/2026
Less is more - the bridle with 9 lives 🐈
I started riding over 25 years ago.
Many professionals I rode with swore by tight nosebands, frequent bit changes, training aids, draw reins, you name it… if a horse was in their program, they would find a way to get the horse to eventually be submissive.
Submission is a term I hate. Who are we kidding? Most people I know have their horse in a show program. They trust & pay a professional several thousands of dollars every month to train them and their horse they claim to love.
Is it really love if you have your horse in a program that drugs it to make it show ready for you? Is it really love if the horse is always ridden in a harsh bit and/or draw reins? You promote laziness, and failing the horse. The truth is your horse isn’t getting correct training or it’s simply not meant to perform the job you bought it for.
I’ve been back in Amateur land for a couple years now. When I was a pro, I started thinking outside the box, as it was my program and I was allowed to do whatever I wanted. My business partner Annie is a lifelong reining trainer. She let me use a simple training bridle to flat my horses for the first time about 10 years ago.
What a difference. Bracing, rooting, pulling, head shaking, reluctance to go forward, sucking back, looking back at my leg, resisting contact, curling over the bit…. All fixed? So weird?!
Maybe not so weird after all…
Maybe my horses are just *happier*?
I have been using this bridle on horses I ride most of the time. This led to me loosening the noseband on my show bridles. Believe me when I say no horse needs a crank noseband, or a tack noseband. Every horse can benefit from patient humans who are dedicated to finding solutions to help it become a better athlete.
Riding it more, riding it less. Jumping it *less* frequently. Understanding how your balance affects theirs….
All of this to say…. Love your horse the way it deserves to be loved, not the narcissistic way.