12/16/2020
After much puppy stress, I’m finally ready to tell you guys a bit about this guy. Things to know about C**t: he’s a dog-savvy little sprite who enjoys bringing the ruckus but avoids conflict at all costs, he likes his sleep a LOT, people are only as good as the snacks in their pockets, and he’s got big 🧐😈 energy (in that particular order). He’s sweet, intelligent, thoughtful, and self-assured. Also, running trust-leaps into mama’s arms are his favourite pastime.
It hasn’t all been fun and rainbows though. The weight of the stress I’ve experienced raising C**t was, at times, extremely overwhelming. As he went through stages that I know full well are perfectly normal for a puppy of his age, I was STRESSED. Thoughts I knew were ridiculous were playing like a broken record in my head like: "my puppy is sometimes moving away from strangers and what if he is IRREVERSIBLY AGGRESSIVE FOREVER." I knew these thoughts were irrational. Knowing that changed nothing. I worried on.
So if you’re out there raising a puppy and you’re thinking "WHY AM I SO UPSET ALL THE TIME", just know it’s the puppy. It’s not you. It’s the little bundle of needs, expectations, p**s, and terrible ideas that you recently welcomed into your home. No amount of preparation, knowledge, or skill would’ve made you exempt. It just comes with the territory.
These days, I’m feeling better and better each day. The best thing I did to ease my stress was to enlist the help of the best Toronto’s pet industry has to offer. S/O to: - You have all, at one point or another, talked me off a cliff with C**t whether you knew you were doing it or not.
My point? I’m not sure! I hope that this bit of vulnerability helps you feel better about your puppy though. I know when I read everyone else’s posts (s/o to for keeping it real about the puppy blues), I feel better and less alone. So here’s to feeling better, here’s to feeling supported, and most of all, here’s to the bright, shining future we each have with our terrifying little blobs.