09/24/2026
When I look at this photo, I can almost hear myself asking: What are you afraid of?
And the answers start coming. Death. Rejection. Failure. Losing people. Taking risks. Making mistakes. Being judged. Feeling ashamed. Not making enough money.
I’m 49, and those fears still come through my mind. But I’ve also lived long enough to know what happens after the hard parts. I’ve made mistakes and learned from them. I’ve taken risks and found out what was possible. I’ve lost people, faced judgment, worried about money, and kept going. Every one of those experiences has helped bring me to a life I once only dreamed about.
Sometimes I catch myself thinking about how many years I have left to work with horses and chase everything I still want to do. Then I remind myself: I don’t know how many years I have. So I want to live each day like I have a million more ahead of me.
Because as long as I keep learning, trying, and believing, I can keep reaching for my next big bodacious dream. Life has already shown me how much more there is to live for. ❤️