09/09/2026
✨ A “Top 10” Ride ✨
Riding has been my passion for three decades now so it takes a lot for a ride to be memorable enough to crack my “top 10” list. However, this ride on the beach was without a doubt a “top 10” ride. With Misty getting older, this year has included many hours of groundwork and a dwindling number of days in the saddle. As I reflect on it now, I don’t think I let myself feel the fullness of how much I miss riding because Misty’s wellbeing is always my top priority and my focus has been keeping her as sound as possible, even if I can’t ride her much anymore.
So when I was invited by some new friends in Washington to go horse camping at the beach, I was eager to go. Was it easy to get away? No. But was it worth it to make the trip anyways? Absolutely. Life for me lately has felt full and fast, and that can be a beautiful thing. But sometimes we need to say no to good things in order to say yes to better things, and I didn’t realize how much I needed some dedicated time in the saddle until I felt the familiar ache of riding creep back into my muscles.
So as I flip through photos of the trip and smile, I can’t help but feel grateful. I’m grateful that this beautiful bay gelding named Rio decided to come out of retirement and be a true gentleman for me as we covered miles of the beach. I felt like Rio and I had a quiet understanding that he had other riders he bonded deeply with in the past and my heart belonged to another horse, but we could enjoy this special impromptu adventure together. I’m grateful to the ladies that invited me on the trip, especially Sonia for sharing Rio with me and Christina for reminding us how much we all needed the time away to unwind and be in nature with the horses. And last and most important of all, I’m grateful that God made horses and beautiful beaches to ride on. In grad school, one of my favourite professors taught us to make an intentional practice out of appreciating things that are beautiful because our brains can get a bit hyper-focused on the challenges of life in an attempt to keep us alive and safe. So this is my photo journal entry of something beautiful. Definitely a top 10 ride. ✨