06/03/2026
I avoid having strangers give my dogs treats in most scenarios, especially for dogs with a history of stranger directed aggression. Instead…
Go for a walk.
Off-leash if you can. Let your dog move freely, make space, take in the new person’s vibe on their own terms. Use a muzzle so if your dog makes an inappropriate choice, they fail safely.
Play.
The known handler starts the game — throw the ball, let the dog bring it back. Then pass the ball to the new person to throw. Suddenly, the stranger is the best thing that’s happened all afternoon.
Both of these work because the dog never has to choose between comfort and connection. They get to warm up naturally, and every rep is a deposit in the bank with new people instead of eroding trust.
But here’s what I love just as much…these strategies give the human something to do.
“No touch, no talk, no eye contact” sounds simple, but it’s basically reverse psychology. Tell someone not to look at the dog and watch what happens. These strategies redirect that energy into action.
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