06/12/2026
Every night, spend ten minutes doing absolutely nothing with your puppy.
I know that sounds strange.
We’re always looking for the next thing to teach. Sit. Stay. Recall. Leash walking. Socialization.
But one of the most important skills a puppy can learn is how to settle when nothing exciting is happening.
Sit on the floor with a handful of treats and let your puppy figure it out.
At first they’ll probably climb all over you. They’ll paw at you, crawl into your lap, bring you toys, maybe even try to convince you that now is the perfect time to play.
Just wait.
The moment they’re beside you instead of on you, reward it.
Four paws on the floor? Reward it.
A sit they offered on their own? Reward it.
A deep breath and a little moment of calm? Definitely reward that.
What I love about this exercise is that the puppy is making the choice.
You’re not constantly telling them what to do.
They’re discovering that being calm, being patient, and simply hanging out with you is actually pretty rewarding.
Over time you’ll notice they stop working so hard to get your attention.
They start choosing to lay beside you instead of climbing on you.
They become more comfortable existing near you without needing to be the centre of the action.
For most families, that’s the dog they’re hoping to have in a few years.
The dog that can relax while the kids are playing.
The dog that can settle while you’re drinking your morning coffee.
The dog that doesn’t need to be entertained every minute of the day.
And it all starts with teaching them that sometimes the reward is simply being close to you.