22/05/2026
"Kire mama, goru kinsos?"
It’s a phrase tossed around effortlessly this time of year, usually accompanied by a laugh or a pat on the back. But for some, this casual question isn't a joke it’s a heavy reminder.
A reminder that this year, despite his hardest efforts, a father just couldn't make the budget work.
A reminder that a mother’s eyes are filled with silent prayers and unspoken worries, rather than the excitement of festive preparations.
A reminder that their Eid won't be marked by the familiar, bustling crowd in the yard or the rich aroma of fresh mangsho simmering on the stove.
The reality is, not every home will welcome a sacrificial animal. Not every child will get to run to the field, bursting with excitement.
Some will stand on the sidelines, quietly watching their neighbors.
Some will put on a brave face and pretend it doesn't bother them.
But deep down, it matters. And it hurts.
So, before you casually ask a friend, colleague, or neighbor, “Kire mama, goru kinsos?”take a brief moment to reflect.
Not everyone gets to celebrate with abundance. Some are simply trying to survive the season with their dignity intact.
Just a gentle reminder to practice empathy this upcoming Eid.