31/08/2026
Things people think will fix reactivity… but won’t 🚫🐕
When your dog reacts to other dogs, people, bikes or noises, it can be tempting to try a quick fix.
But these common approaches often don’t address the reason behind the behaviour — and some can actually make things worse.
❌ “I need to become the pack leader.”
Reactivity isn’t caused by your dog trying to dominate you. Your dog needs clear guidance, safety and skills — not a power struggle.
❌ “I’ll tell my dog off when they react.”
Punishing barking, lunging or growling may suppress the behaviour, but it doesn’t change the underlying emotion. Your dog may still feel worried, frustrated or over-excited — they just learn that showing it gets them in trouble.
❌ “They just need to play with more dogs.”
More exposure isn’t necessarily better. Repeatedly putting a reactive dog into overwhelming situations can rehearse the behaviour and increase stress.
❌ “A choke chain will stop the lunging.”
Pain or discomfort may interrupt a reaction, but it doesn’t teach your dog how to feel or behave differently around their trigger. It can also create negative associations with the thing your dog is reacting to.
✅ What actually helps?
Managing your dog’s environment, working under threshold, gradually changing their emotional response through desensitisation and counter-conditioning, and teaching them what you want them to do instead.
Reactivity is a behaviour problem — but underneath it is often an emotional response. Address the emotion, and you have a much better chance of changing the behaviour. ❤️