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Is a tired dog really a happy dog?A good question. And the answer…Well, it depends.We’ve all heard the saying, “A tired ...
10/10/2026

Is a tired dog really a happy dog?

A good question. And the answer…

Well, it depends.

We’ve all heard the saying, “A tired dog is a good dog.”

And while meeting our dogs’ physical exercise needs is important, there’s a little more to the story.

When dogs exercise, their heart rate increases, muscles get working and depending on the activity, their nervous system becomes more activated.

All perfectly normal.

But here’s where things get interesting.

Physical exhaustion and emotional regulation aren’t necessarily the same thing.

A dog can be physically exhausted and still be emotionally overwhelmed.

Think about a dog who’s just spent an hour at a busy park. They’ve been running, chasing, wrestling and interacting with other dogs.

They come home, collapse on the floor and sleep for hours.

Great, right?

Maybe!

But what if that same dog was struggling to disengage from play, becoming increasingly frantic or repeatedly finding themselves in situations they weren’t comfortable with?

Suddenly, being exhausted doesn’t necessarily tell us whether our dog enjoyed the experience.

Now, that’s not to say exercise is bad.

Far from it.

Movement, play, exploration and opportunities to engage in natural behaviours are incredibly important for our dogs’ physical and emotional wellbeing.

But the type of activity, the individual dog and how they’re experiencing it all matter.

For some dogs, a big adventure with lots of physical activity might be exactly what they need.

For others?

A slow, sniffy wander, some gentle enrichment and an afternoon snooze might be far more beneficial.

And sometimes, it’s a combination of both.

So, rather than asking ourselves, “Have I tired my dog out enough today?”

What if we started asking:

“Has my dog had opportunities to do things they enjoy, make choices and have time to rest and recover?”

Because the goal isn’t to have a dog who’s too exhausted to do anything.

It’s to have a dog whose needs are being met.

And those are two very different things.

After all, there’s a difference between a dog who’s had a full day and a dog who’s had a fulfilling one ✨

Feeling very lucky to have spent Friday at the PPGA workshop and finally hear Tom Mitchell from Help! My Dog and beha_ve...
14/09/2026

Feeling very lucky to have spent Friday at the PPGA workshop and finally hear Tom Mitchell from Help! My Dog and beha_vet speak in person 😍

I’ve learnt so much from Tom and his work over the years, so getting the opportunity to listen, learn and take it all in was pretty special!

Forever grateful to be in a profession where there is always more to learn, question and stay curious about 🐾

Happy Birthday to this quirky legend 🎉5 years of Gully being exactly himself 🐾 Pillow princess. Professional watch keepe...
01/08/2026

Happy Birthday to this quirky legend 🎉

5 years of Gully being exactly himself 🐾 Pillow princess. Professional watch keeper. Always up for a b**r, cocktail or wherever the day takes us!

He is one of the great teachers in my life. Happy birthday to my little dude, here’s to another year of chaos and cuddles 🧡

15/05/2026

Something exciting is here 🐾

We are now offering Puppy School at on a Tuesday evening!

These classes are designed to help set your puppy up for success, focusing on confidence, calmness and navigating the world together ✨

📍 Frenchs Forest Vet Hospital
🕡 Tuesday at 6:30pm

Enrolments are now open 👉🏼 link in bio to book!

Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for your dog is…less 🐾Less pressure ✨ Less expectation ✨ More safetyProgress star...
11/05/2026

Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for your dog is…less 🐾

Less pressure ✨ Less expectation ✨ More safety

Progress starts when your dog feels safe! Swipe to see what decompression looks like 👉🏼

20/01/2026

We ask SO much of our dogs 🧡

We ask them to accept handling from strangers. To tolerate pats on the head. To “just deal with” being touched when they’re uncomfortable. All without ever asking if they consent.

But what if we gave them choice?

This is petting consent. Check out Scout’s new owner beautifully exercising what it looks like when we actually listen to our dogs’ communication. Watch what happens when we:

✨ Offer a pat, not force it
✨ Watch their body language
✨ Respect their “yes” AND their “no”

Notice how the dog leans IN when they want more? That’s consent. When they move away or look elsewhere? That’s also consent … to NOT be touched right now.

Consent isn’t spoiling your dog. It’s respecting them as a sentient being with preferences, boundaries and feelings. It builds trust, confidence and a relationship based on mutual respect.

Try it with your dog. You might be surprised what they tell you when we actually give them a voice 🐾

As the year gently comes to a close, Pillar of Paws will be taking a short pause over the Christmas period 🎄This time is...
23/12/2025

As the year gently comes to a close, Pillar of Paws will be taking a short pause over the Christmas period 🎄

This time is about rest, reset, and regulation - for dogs and humans 🧡

Christmas can be a big, busy and sometimes overwhelming time, especially for sensitive nervous systems. If your dog needs extra space, more rest, management, or lower expectations right now, that’s not a setback - it’s care 🐾

Thank you for trusting me with your dogs this year. It’s been such a privilege to support you through big feelings, small wins and everything in between!

I’ll be taking a short break from December 24 to January 12 and will be back in the new year, refreshed and ready to support you and your dogs again ✨

Until then - go gently, take breaks, and honour what feels right for your dog xx

What a wonderful weekend at  ✨Between the Christmas Fun Day on Saturday and Puppy School on Sunday, I absolutely loved i...
01/12/2025

What a wonderful weekend at ✨

Between the Christmas Fun Day on Saturday and Puppy School on Sunday, I absolutely loved it!

A special shout out to .dogrescue who joined us at the Christmas event with the gorgeous Luna, looking for her forever home 🐾

Swipe through for some cute snippets from the weekend 🧡

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Northern Beaches
Sydney, NSW

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