23/09/2026
Yesterday I met gorgeous little Woody, a 4–5 year old Cavoodle.
When I arrived, there was a bit of chaos at the front door. Woody was barking, this lovely lady was repeatedly asking him to go to his bed, and although he kept doing what he was told, he kept coming straight back again. By the third or fourth time, she was getting frustrated — and Woody just looked confused.
This was a lovely example of the difference between obedience and leadership.
“Go to your bed” is an obedience command. But the front door is really about controlling space. Once she learned how to calmly take control of that space, Woody understood exactly what was expected of him.
At the end of our session, we tested it again. I went outside, knocked loudly, even banged on the windows — and not a sound from Woody. When she opened the door, there he was, calmly sitting back on his bed.
Obedience training is valuable. Leadership is valuable. But when the problem is about who controls the space, leadership is often the much clearer language for the dog.
Well done, Woody — and his lovely owner!