08/04/2026
Sometimes a special dog comes along. You know the ones. The ones that just *have it*. A sense of self-possession, a confidence, something almost unidentifiable. These dogs are rare, as anyone who works in the canine world will know.
I'm lucky enough to have one.
After two more difficult dogs of my own, a few fosters, and working with countless dogs and puppies over the years, I can tell you it's a different sort of learning curve to raise a dog like this.
When you have sensitive or anxious dogs, or you're working with rehomes, trauma cases, or severe separation anxiety, you learn to be on the ball at all times. You learn to look out for your dog in every situation and manage their life to the minutia.
Raffles is not like that. He looks after me.If I wanted an assistance dog, he could be that for me.
Of course, he's still a baby, and I'm still very careful with who he meets and what experiences he has, but everything he comes across, he just...deals with it. No worries.
If we want to use labels: left to his own devices, he would no doubt become the leader of whatever pack of dogs he collected around himself. And he would collect them. He makes it his mission to befriend every dog he comes across, whether they want it or not. He hasn't failed yet. Not through 'dominance' or 'aggression' or 'resource control', but through sheer good social skills. Less confident dogs follow him happily, as if to say: thank god, there's someone here to make decisions. I can relax. I can already see the starts of it in social play sessions. He'll often decide which toy everyone is playing with, whether they're lying down chewing or running around chasing - and all of these dogs are older than him.
If he were human, we'd call him charismatic. Extroverted. A great leader. Self-assured, steady, reliable.
He is an absolute gift. A one-in-a-million kind of dog.
Wherryman Spaniels