10/26/2026
If your off-leash dog never leaves your side as you parade down the street, congratulations, you’ve invented the purpose of a leash. Your dog gets nothing out of it that a leash wouldn’t give them, and arguably even less. The only thing that changed is who you hope is watching and maybe how you feel.
That’s what training for your ego looks like.
It’s also the dog parked on “Place” or in a down stay in a highly congested area, so strangers can admire how “good” they are and how “cool” you look. Perfect in public, all the time, for an audience your dog doesn’t know exists. I’m seeing this more and more online and in the real world, and I’m just left thinking, “Who is this for?”
To be clear, I teach heel, place, and down-stay all the time. They’re valuable skills that help dogs be more successful in a world built entirely around humans. And I think it’s vital that we aim to build confident, adaptable, resilient dogs who can thrive in the world we’ve placed them in.
But a lot of what I’m seeing misses that point completely.
Zoom out for a second and ask if your dog would even want to be there in the first place, beyond US wanting them there. What are they getting out of this experience or activity besides being glued to you?
So, I encourage you, to stop training with your ego and train the dog you have for the life they actually live with you. The skills matter but so does why you’re using them.