09/28/2026
PLEASE DON'T HIT ME
If hitting a donkey (or any animal, for that matter) produced positive results, there would be very few naughty or dangerous donkeys.
Hitting does NOT work; in fact, hitting your donkey only makes EVERYTHING worse, and you, the human, lose every time!!
Hitting a donkey creates a huge disconnect between you and the donkey. The donkey simply moves into a deeper state of indifference, distrust, and resentment. And take our word for it, donkeys will remember if you have been cruel, unfair, or a poor leader.
We have never met a donkey that was inherently mean and hateful! Donkeys that are simply naughty are usually frustrated that they are not being heard or have given up on humans. Donkeys are constantly communicating with us, telling us how they feel, what matters to them, and what they fear. Donkeys will always give us a warning; the question is, are WE listening?
Donkeys that bite, kick, or strike are in psychological pain, physical pain, or a state of heightened fear. They don't need a 'strong hand' or a 'good whipping'; they need a human who understands herd mentality and donkey psychology, knows how to listen, be patient, be a FAIR LEADER, and stay On Donkey Time®.
Even in severe cases of being kicked or bitten, always walk away! Don't escalate the situation by striking back. If you react by hitting or kicking your donkey, you are the only one who is going to get hurt (we have heard of people breaking their hands and their toes).
Regroup and make a plan. Don't go back to your donkey until YOU understand donkey psychology, how to build mutual respect, and the basics of natural, non-resistant horsemanship (donkeymanship).
The bottom line is: Learn, become a good leader, and watch your donkey respond with respect and a willingness to please you.
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