09/04/2026
🍹 Welcome to Friday’s Yappy Hour!
Where the leashes come off and I spill the tea on life as a dog trainer—with a little less training and a lot more trainer. 🍷🐾
🍷 This Week: Things My Dogs Have Taught Me About Being a Trainer 🤔
First, Let’s bust a myth:
Being a dog trainer does NOT mean our own dogs are perfectly behaved.
In fact, I’m pretty sure the universe gives trainers the dogs that keep us humble. 😂
Take Bandit the Foster Dog . 🐕🦺
She came driven to chase cars, cats and ceiling fans. She barks. She has opinions. BIG opinions.
She has me standing there thinking:
“Well…this wasn't exactly in the career brochure."😂
And then there's Hope. ❤️
Hope is the dog who wears a muzzle at the vet.
And yes—she's muzzle trained and comfortable wearing it.
Because being a good trainer isn't about pretending my dog never struggles.
It's about knowing your dog, preparing for what they need, and finding humane, supporting ways to help them feel safe.
And, of course, there's the ultimate trainer confession:
I can tell a client, “Barking is communication. Yelling back isn't going to stop it.”
Meanwhile, Bandit:
WOOF! WOOF! WOOF!
Me: “BANDIT. WE HAVE DISCUSSED THIS!” 🫣😂
But these girls are teaching me something even more important.
🆗️It's okay to feel overwhelmed.
🆗️It's okay to question practices.
🆗️It's okay to say, “This isn't working. Let's rethink this.”
🆗️It's okay to take a break.
And sometimes, taking that break is exactly what we need to come back as a better version of ourselves.
My girls are complex rescue dogs. They've challenged me, humbled me, made me laugh and cry, made me question myself—and made me a better trainer. Not just for dogs, but for their people too.
They've reminded me that progress isn't always pretty.
That perfection isn't the goal.
And that sometimes the best thing you can do for your dog—and yourself—is stop, breathe, reset and try again.
And most importantly: ❤️ The relationship matters more than getting everything right.🌟
So yes…
I'm a dog trainer.
And my dogs still bark, chase things they shouldn't, surprise me, challenge me and occasionally make me question every professional decision I've ever made. 😂
And I still show up for them every day. And I'm still learning too.💞
None of the challenges takes away from the amount of progress we have made.
🍹 Now it's your turn:
"Yes. I'm a dog trainer/dog parent and my dog still ______"
Let's have some Friday confessions. 😂👇