09/18/2026
I’m sure some people have wondered why I haven’t been posting as frequently or responding to every voicemail and message about Ace. I wanted to take a moment to explain.
Even when I don’t respond, please know that I see your messages, I read the tips, and I genuinely appreciate every single person who continues to think about Ace and help us look for him. If you haven’t heard back from me, oftentimes it’s because I’ve already received and responded to the same tip from someone else. I simply don’t always have the time or emotional capacity to respond individually to multiple messages about the same information.
This year has been one of the most difficult years of my life. I’m balancing being a mom, running a small business, working as a mental health therapist, and navigating physical health struggles within our family. Some weeks, I’m simply emotionally tapped out. There are days when I don’t have the energy to answer messages, make another post, or explain where things stand.
And on top of everything else, there is the grief of missing Ace.
I’m angry that this is our life now. I’m angry that we weren’t the ones who lost him, yet we’re the ones who have had to live with the repercussions every single day. I’m angry that we’ve exhausted ourselves trying to find him, only to make no progress.
It’s frustrating. It’s heartbreaking. And some days, it’s just exhausting.
I also understand that not everyone will agree with how I’m balancing everything right now, and that’s okay. You don’t have to understand every decision I make or how I choose to spend my time and energy. I’m doing the best I can, one day at a time, while trying to keep our family, my work, and our lives moving forward while carrying the weight of Ace being missing.
This is our reality now. Ace is still missing, and as long as there is a possibility that he is out there, we will continue to look for him.
So if you’ve sent a message, shared a post, kept an eye out, checked a shelter, followed up on a lead, or simply thought about Ace… thank you. Even when I don’t have the capacity to respond, it does not mean your effort goes unnoticed or unappreciated.
We are still here. We are still looking. And we still want Ace home. 🤍