Tsaheylu Farm

06/02/2026

Mulberries are ripe! 😋 and easier to pick off horseback.
Fun to ride to get ice cream 🍦 at the general store.

06/02/2026

05/29/2026

Gratitude is all I see

05/25/2026

If only we had an indoor to hang the rope from! Maybe a little risky lol, but it looks so fun!

05/20/2026

It’s HOT 🥵 so we’ve been enjoying slow trail rides

05/19/2026

Each ride,
each mount,
teaches you something
And you grow into being a well rounded horseman (or horsekid ~ that’s its own thing I think)

05/12/2026

As riding instructors we spend a lot of time managing the gap between what new students expect riding to be and what it actually is. Most of that gap could be narrowed significantly with one honest conversation before the first lesson ever happens. So here is everything I wish every new student and every new riding family walked in already knowing...

1. Riding is harder than it looks
This is the one that surprises people most. Watching a good rider looks effortless but it is not effortless. It is years of muscle memory, feel, balance, and body awareness built through consistent work over a long time. Your first lessons will feel awkward and uncoordinated and that is completely normal. Every rider you have ever admired felt exactly the way you feel right now when they were starting out.

2. The horse is not a bicycle
It is a living animal with its own personality, its own opinions, and its own good days and bad days. It does not always do what you ask the first time and that is not always your fault but it is always your responsibility to figure out the communication. Learning to work with a horse rather than on top of one is one of the most valuable things riding teaches and it starts from the very first lesson.

3. Progress is not linear
Some weeks you will feel like you have jumped forward three levels. Other weeks you will feel like you have forgotten everything you learned last month. Both are completely normal parts of learning to ride. The students who improve consistently are not the ones who never have bad lessons but they are the ones who show up anyway and keep working through the frustrating ones.

4. One lesson a week is a start but not a program
A single lesson per week gives you exposure to riding. Two lessons per week builds skill significantly faster. The riders who progress quickest are the ones who ride consistently and frequently enough that their muscles and nervous system have time to develop real memory around what correct feels like. If budget allows for more than one lesson per week it is worth it.

5. Your position will feel wrong before it feels right
Correct position in the saddle feels deeply unnatural to most people at first. Heels down feels like you are pushing your foot through the floor. Sitting tall feels like you are leaning back. An independent hand feels like you are doing nothing. Trust the process and trust your instructor. The things that feel strange now become automatic eventually but only if you commit to doing them correctly rather than defaulting back to what feels comfortable.

6. The time around the lesson matters as much as the lesson itself
Grooming your horse before you ride. Learning to tack up correctly. Understanding how to read your horse's body language in the cross ties. This is not the boring part before the real lesson begins. This is horsemanship and it makes you a better rider than an hour in the saddle alone ever will.

7. Bad rides happen to every rider at every level
Including the ones you look up to most. A bad lesson does not mean you are not cut out for this, it just means you are learning something hard and doing it on the back of a living animal that is also having a day. Come back next week and it will be different.
Your instructor is on your side.

8. Every correction we give is in service of your progress and your safety
We are not pointing out what is wrong to make you feel bad but we are pointing out what needs to change so you can get where you want to go faster and more safely. The students who improve fastest are the ones who hear a correction as information rather than criticism and apply it without taking it personally.

9. Riding changes you in ways you will not expect
The patience it builds, the confidence that comes from communicating with an animal ten times your size and being understood. The resilience that develops from falling short of a goal and coming back for it anyway. The community you find at the barn. None of that shows up in the first lesson or even the tenth but it will show up at one point. For most riders it becomes one of the most significant things in their life and not just what they do on Tuesday afternoons but part of who they are.

If you are a riding instructor share this with every new family who walks through your gate. If you are a new student or a parent of one - welcome. You picked something genuinely worth doing!

What do you wish someone had told you before your very first riding lesson?

05/12/2026

The farm has this week off from lessons.

But there is never really such a thing as a week off when you’re a mother, business owner, horseman/ horse caretaker, and partner.

Still it has afforded me some time to get 4 out of my 5 kids up on a horse for my style of family time along with Brannon who kept his feet on the ground but took pictures and held horses as the kids swapped around their mounts. Yes they can all ride, my oldest daughter hasn’t ridden in almost a year but was grinning riding freckles out on trail and cantering Finn in the ring. Misty is perfect as always, Jazzy is really going great with my younger kids, and Finn’s bond with my middle daughter continues to grow. Nugget is FAT & SASSY, whoops I missed the start of muzzle season with him- and spring is the bestest of weather, glorious outside right now!!

Getting more spring cleaning done, getting Jazzy ready for lessons next week, and squeezing in reading a book or two, a lay in the hammock, and even a few days at bike week with a different type of horse power 🏍️