08/24/2026
Excerpt from my latest blog, Link to the full post is in the comments:
When I evaluate a dog's social skills, two of the things I'm looking for above almost everything else are:
● Can this dog tell another dog “no” without taking it too far?
● Can this dog be told “no” by another dog without retaliating?
Those are relationship skills. They only get built through actual interaction, ideally the kind where a person is close enough to guide it and step in if a correction starts to escalate past what it needs to be. A dog sitting on a bench watching the park never has to navigate a moment of conflict, never has to read another dog's boundary and back off, never has to set a boundary of its own and hold it appropriately. That dog might come away from the outing more comfortable with noise and movement and unfamiliar dogs and people at a distance. It won't come away better at actually engaging with other dogs, because it was never involved in any real social interaction.
That's the piece environmental habituation simply cannot do, no matter how many hours of exposure a dog gets. This is not a knock on habituation. It's just not what habituation is for.
when we call habituation socialization, we're not just being loose with language. We're quietly acting as if structured socialization, and the specific things it builds, don't really exist as their own category of skill. That's a bigger loss than a vocabulary slip. It shapes how trainers think about what a dog needs, and it shapes what owners come to expect and ask for.
Read to whole post on my website to understand the full picture.