08/13/2026
A live Q&A with an audience talking about something I think gets missed way too often in dog training: the dog’s nervous system.
Training isn’t just about whether a dog can sit, down, stay, heel, or perform a behavior when asked.
I care about whether that dog has self-regulation skills.
Can the dog experience excitement without completely losing control? Can they feel frustration without exploding? Can they encounter something stressful and recover? Can they settle without constantly needing the handler to micromanage them?
Because a dog can be incredibly obedient and still be internally dysregulated.
You can teach a dog to hold a down while their nervous system is screaming. That isn’t the same thing as teaching the dog how to genuinely settle.
A huge part of my work is helping dogs develop the ability to regulate themselves—not simply suppressing behavior until the dog looks calm from the outside.
I’m looking at breathing, muscle tension, arousal, frustration tolerance, recovery time, ability to disengage, and whether the dog’s body is actually beginning to soften.
I also incorporate things people may not immediately associate with traditional dog training: intentional massage, relaxation work, body awareness, the autonomic nervous system, the vagus nerve, movement, environmental exposure, and helping dogs practice moving between arousal and relaxation.
For reactive, anxious, impulsive, frustrated, or hyper-aroused dogs, I don’t only ask:
“How do we stop this behavior?”
I ask:
“What is happening inside this dog that is producing the behavior, and what skills does this dog need to handle it differently?”
Of course I teach obedience, communication, boundaries, reinforcement, structure, and exposure.
But obedience is only one piece.
My goal is a dog who can recover, settle, make better decisions, tolerate frustration, and move through the world without constantly becoming overwhelmed.
**Behavior is what we see.
The nervous system is part of what’s happening underneath it.**
I want to work with both.