10/14/2026
THE 12 LAWS OF JUNIOR MIF
Law No. 4 — Presence! Be Here. NOW.
Junior Mif was always present. Not always still. Present. Know your past, be curious about your future. Live and breathe NOW in this moment. You cannot be two places at the same time…
Mif Life Law No. 4 — Presence. Be here. Really be Here. Right Now.
She knew what was happening, what she was feeling, and what was needed in that moment. Sometimes the answer was Yes. Sometimes it was No. Sometimes it was Wait. And sometimes it was Move.
If a participant was brushing her yet their mind was somewhere else, Mif might simply move a few feet away—just far enough that the brush couldn’t reach her. She wasn’t being difficult. Mif was saying, “You’re not here with me, are you?.”
And she would disengage, wait, turn and face them, turn and face away, it would depend – on the present moment. When the person slowed down, became curious, and figured out what they needed to change, Mif might step back in and re-present. If being led, without presence she would stop or go the other way. Once mindfulness and presence complete Mif was largely agreeable that made outcomes meaningful.
The YES came. Sometimes Mif had to say NO to create the possibility of Yes. That was her way.
Mif had great memory, and accumulated wisdom, yet did not live in her past. She wasn’t worried about her future. Mif responded to what was happening (or not happening) right now. And that is what made her so decisive. How can you make a clear decision when your mind is somewhere else?
You cannot.
Mif taught us that presence isn’t passive. Presence is participation. Sometimes the answer arrives when you become still enough to hear it.
You want peace? You want clarity? Must be here in the present to see what is happening. Must be OK here in the present to understand what you are feeling. Must be present here now to hear what is being asked of you. Then can make a choice about what is happening right now — better odds than could’ve, would’ve or should’ve.
Junior Mif
April 17, 2000 – April 18, 2026
Mother – Healer – Teacher – Friend 🤍